whats the thing that ur parents did and u hated and were certain u wouldnt do it with your children?
for me
its my parents having me and my lil bro at such an advance age, now im in my teens and they cant keep up with me! its frustraiting , so i know i wont have any kids after 30!
2007-06-14 12:38:03 · 16 answers · asked by MAK 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
After they divorced, I didn't have proper clothes. I would often go to school with holes in my socks, etc. It created low self esteem. I know they tried and I am not saying that I needed some expensive clothes but just necessities and they could afford them back then. It was neglectful on their part. I told myself that I would never do that to my kids. They do not have expensive clothes and most of them are bought at target but they do not need to be embarrassed about holes in their socks or shoes.
I also started drinking at a young age and doing other things that my older siblings were doing. They didn't watch us enough and I wouldn't let my children do those things now.
2007-06-14 12:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have always made me feel that no matter what I do they are not proud of me. My mom is a very hard person to talk to and will rather yell and scream at me than talk. She thinks she has never done anything wrong and that I am too blame for everything. She will talk bad about me to my daughter and sisters thinking my daughter doesn't tell me. My solution I moved out of the country I don't call only email my sister. When my sister asked if I was ever going to move back home I said not if I don't have too.
2007-06-14 20:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by MZ. Latina 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have rather loved and would I say laughed my butt off at a lot of these lol. if its my greatest parenting mistake you wish i can deliver it to you however I am sorry motive its now not an overly humorous one. eight-nine-ninety seven I gave beginning to dual boys ( preemies) Donald and Donovan in DEC. ninety seven on a Tuesday Donovan (three months ancient )wasn't feeling well so I took him to the physician and the after hour medical institution they stated he had a bloodless and the hives simply deliver him Tylenol and benadryl two days later Donovan broke out in whelps AGAIN, in the course of the night time took him again on Thursday and beg the Dr. to do blood scan the Dr. stated nope it used to be the hives he reassured me that he used to be OK and its average for infants to get hives. I referred to as to make and appt along with his reg Dr. on Friday however they could not see him until Monday my little angel died Sunday night time on 12-7-ninety seven two days earlier than he might had been four months ancient, in his crib mattress at eight:00 pm from sepsis. that's an untreated contamination which might had been detected in a blood scan I are living with this daily and hate myself for trusting this Dr. and now not being extra power, its the largest mistake i've ever made in my existence!
2016-09-05 16:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by merkl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Told me I was never clean enough, never pretty enough, never smart enough, never just enough.
But then I ruined my children by over-praising them, so that they can never be satisfied when others think they are just enough.
You can't make up for your parents' mistakes by making the opposite ones with your own children.
Having kids too young, or even at just the "right" age can bring its own problems. We just have to do the best we can.
2007-06-14 12:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mattie D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not laying down the law. A 15 year old should not have a 2am curfew and come home drunk and her older boyfriend spend the night all weekend. My daughter would be sent to bootcamp.
2007-06-14 12:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think what really bothered me during my teen years was my parents constantly comparing me to my older siblings, who were smarter and more studious. It really grated on my nerves when they told me I should be more like them. I learned not to let it rule my life as I grew up to become my own person and appreciated my being unique from my siblings.
2007-06-14 13:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by clovy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the worst mistake my parents did with me was:
to ignore me and never pay any attention to me because they were always too busy with their own lifes and friends
2007-06-14 12:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably not exactly the answer you were expecting, but I feel that the worst mistake my parents made with their children was knowing that they were being sexually and physically abused and not stopping it.
2007-06-14 12:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by angel1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mom getting married 5 times.
moving a lot to and from our new "families"
2007-06-14 13:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by Ashli 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not telling that I did a good job on things and saying that they hear and there not listening.
2007-06-14 13:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by Koter Boters misses Rufus! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋