Summer is here and i am not aloud to see my friends very often...maybe just once every two weeks. Im also not aloud to see my boyfriend. I miss him sooo much. How do i keep my mind off of him so i can feel a little less crazy?
2007-06-14 11:06:59 · 14 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know I'm sorta in the same boat but I can't talk to him at all. Instead I've been talking to friends.
2007-06-14 11:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't have a boyfriend, but when I am away from my wife, I do just keep busy. It really doesn't matter what you do, so long as you are doing something! Keep yourself occupied. Keep active. Get some exercise. Read a book. Watch a movie. Whatever it is that you like to do, do it, and keep at it. The busier you are, the less time you'll have to think about your boyfriend. It is hard, but it can be done. Good luck!
2007-06-14 18:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him and talk. If you can't do that send him emails and postal mail letters. That way you can keep in touch and not have to spend a whole lot of money!
If you want to keep your mind completely off him try finding a hobby that you can do without a whole group of people. Something like painting, puzzles, working out, or watching movies that you have always wanted to watch but never had time to see!
2007-06-14 18:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by Jenni P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey start a journal - you don't have to show it to him, but write stuff in it like ur talkin to him. Remember, this is just for you to keep busy about missing him. if you think its makin your feelings for him more intense ya gotta remember he dont have nuthin to do with this.
Try try try to make new friends--boy or girl- close to your home so ur mom will let you see them a little bit more often.
yur too young to limit your friendships with other people just cause you have a boyfriend (actually, no one should).
Do you know anyone who can teach you to crochet, needlepoint, play canasta card game(we do this for hours).and we did it when i was a kid your age too!
Also read books, anything you like, it really takes your mind off things, and it makes you smarter-go to the library-(theres other kids there too)
HAVE A GREAT SUMMER!
oh oh mr. tacos hat gave me an idea -- experiment with cooking!
2007-06-14 18:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First the word is allowed. Make friends in your neighborhood so you can hang out with. Try keeping busy like straightening out your moms closets, cleaning out the fridge, vacuuming. There's all kinds of things you can do to take you mind off him. Watch lots of t.v., read books....etc.
2007-06-15 14:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Twinkle♥Toes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him.
Or if you can't do that write a letter to him every day you dont see him.
that way you can think about him,
with out losing you mind.
2007-06-14 18:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Broken grl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on the computer.
Ask questions in Yahoo Answers.
2007-06-14 18:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tyson boy's dad 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
set a time where you can call him every day, or every week so that you can look forward to that time instead of wondering about everything he's doing. it works, trust me
2007-06-14 18:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by mythunderxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your so young that you are not allowed to see him in the summer, that means you too young to have a boyfriend.
2007-06-14 18:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
try to find activities to fill ur time, but why cant u see ur friends?
2007-06-14 18:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋