2007-06-14 10:47:01 · 14 answers · asked by ashley N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes you can just tell. but sometimes you can't. it depends on how long and how much you like this person. if you liked him for more than a year i think your in love. but if not and you don't know that he is the one [ there is no one else] and you are faithful to him, than not. if you are in love, you should make your move.
but sometimes, the heart gives the best answer. so listen to your heart.
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2007-06-14 10:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ALWAYS just a crush in the beginning. There's no getting around it, we are always attracted to the superficial things, both men and women.
You won't know if it's love until it's been a good year. If you've been playing the game for a while and you have some good experience under your belt, then it doesn't take as long to figure out, but then again, you wouldn't need to ask this question.
Don't assume you're in love, because if it doesn't work out it will only hurt more. Live life, enjoy your friends and your 'more than just friends', and when the initial whirlwind of attraction is over and you both fit together like pieces of a puzzle, then you'll know that you're in love. Don't try to force it, that never works.
Good luck, I hope that you are in fact, in love.
2007-06-14 17:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that when you are in love you feel something so different than with just a crush. When you are in love I think you kinda get this feeling....I really dont know how to explain it...it just feels different than a crush is all I can say.
2007-06-14 17:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to tell sometimes. a crush is wanting someone without really knowing them. love is knowing someone and having real feelings for. love is when u know all about the person, the flaws and all and still wanting them. love is wanting that person around all the time and doing what u can just to make them smile. love is sticking by the person no matter how far they've fallen. love is when its all said and done and u still feel it. thats what i think it is anyways.
2007-06-14 17:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually...if its just a crush...ull think the guys cute...and hott...and nice and sweet but when ur in love...its a whole new feeling and u feel as if hes the only guy/girl for u and nothing else in the world matters besides that person. Also ull think about this person almost every second....=]
2007-06-14 17:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by barbecuechip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might not hit your mind at once, but your heart knows it. I kept on telling myself that the guy I was dating was way too mature for me, and he looked like he wanted a very smart girl. Hey four years later we've been married for two years with two kids. I still giggly thinking about him.
2007-06-14 17:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 10 years you will know! LOL. It's something that takes time to figure out, may take a week, or more than a year.
2007-06-14 17:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Crissy_Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know when your in love because you will start feeling feelings for him that you never felt for any one else.... you will start to care more, look better for him, and do alot of things that you never done for anyone else..... a cursh is someone you like for a moment of time... you really don't like him but you think he is cute...
2007-06-14 17:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in love if you get shy and nervous around him because you care what he thinks. it's just a crush when you know you liek him but are totally comfortable with his presence.=]!
2007-06-14 17:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love reveals it self over time and through test of adversity.
2007-06-14 17:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋