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Question

satisfy your Muslim wifes desires?

to satisfy your muslim wifes desires as I lack a wife and it has been so long just taking care of my children I probably wouldn't know what to do, or I might be like Forest Gump when he gets in the bed with his love.

Answer 1

Husban in islamic teaching is an imam,khalifah or leader in the family who has wife and children.Husban should do to satisfy his wife and children by :
1)love and respect them by take and give and protect them well and direct their lives in line with the holy qur'an dan hadith
2)give them all their daily needs edequately so he should eak his income for livelihood
3)give the best example of all doings in line with the holy qur'an such as praying together at home on the right time,give alms to the poor and orphans,give assistance to their parents and relatives,discuss all important decisions wth his wife and make an open communication with his wife and children
4)act tenderly , honestly ,transparency ,and politely (no rude)but responsible
5)give facilities adequately for making fun or recreation at home and out of their home by making a togetherness..

Answer 2

I think the religious or not, it really doesn't count here, how to satisfy your wife, is you yourself, should know that. I believe all woman, doesn't mean shes Muslim or not they all need love and tender care. Don't ask question like this, seems like Muslim ladies need more love or more tender care, most women are equally the same, no matter what religion they are. We are woman and we are human too, treat us as a person that you love most, give us protection and caring like you care so much. That's how to treat a wife or a woman that you love.

Answer 3

Very funny! what made you think that Muslim lady will be any way different then a non-Muslim lady. Why are such questions in Religion & Spirituality section?

Addition: Ah! my dear Hans Laxman Raj, where have you been? Instead of answering the question you had to pick on me. Well, please do enlighten me which of my sentences in the present answer shows any intolerance and anger or shows the kind of upbringing I have had. I am not surprised with you taking a jibe at me because I have caught you several times with your pants down and high-lighted your upbringing and Hindu tolerence. Grow-up boy, may Allah guide you to the right path. Ameen.

Answer 4

If you are talking about sex don't worry about that...it is the last thing on the list to a lasting relationship. It is also a natural act that all creatures have no problem doing.

If you put this last on the list of things to do with a girl you will end up with someone who you are compatible with in every way and whom you respect as a true friend, adviser, confidant and ally. When this happens you will have the best sex partner you could find for the rest of your life.

You could also end up with nobody if it is God's will brother. However you should be attracted to a potential mate by conversation and her ability to make you feel different and more able for both of you to live better (and as the lady above pointed out "Someone you would lay down your life for" as is also required in Islam). Don't dominate...Listen to her Brother.

Answer 5

Treat her always with respect and honor her,make her feel like she is the only woman alive.For me it is knowing my husband would lay his life down for me,not that I would ever want that but this is what Christianity teaches husbands to be like.It teaches men to love your wife as Christ loves the church and gave his life for it.Love is so important any woman would love you back unless she is mean.Be loved and blessed and your children are blessed to have a father like you.

Answer 6

I never dated a Muslim, and from the looks of it I probably never will. I would say treat her with love and respect, but hey, what do I know?!

Answer 7

Do the Way she like to be. Of course not to go against the religious rules on getting intimate. Do it sincerely and with love.

Answer 8

Typical aggressive and intolerant answer from my dear uncle Mr Arif Anwar. Whenever someone asks a question which doesn't meet his standards of docility, he gets angry and shows everyone his upbringing.

Answer 9

You can't go wrong if you treat her with tenderness and love. Women love to be complimented--make sure you always do that.
Good sex starts in the head and heart--not in the sexual organs.

Answer 10

treat her like any lady she is humen with love and respect and take care of the family. if u asking about sex all humen r the same do it the way u and she likes.