I met Kody at a basketball game and we always im and text eachother. One day i told him i liked him and he told me he liked me also. I'm really good friends with his sister and brother so they tell me alot of stuff like what he says about me, what should i do around him and even what to wear. When i was at the tracks he tottally ignored me and was alll over these other girls. So his little sister was like go talk to her hangout with her, so he did and i mean i had the best time ever . So the next day or so we were talking and he said that i mean alot to him, so i just sat there on the phone waiting for im to ask me out but he didnt. When i was at the lake i called him and he answered, "im busy" and them he hung up then he texted me "dont get mad at me its just that im with some friends but i will call you tomorrow". So when his little sister asked me to go hangout, Kody was so sweet to me. But when i got home the next day we imed and he didnt talk to me. What does this mean?
2007-06-14 10:38:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me, it is because he knows you like him. Flirt with other guys and see how he reacts.
2007-06-14 10:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bo Did 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, you need to chill. You have to realize that guys can like you, have feelings for you and want to be around you but not 24/7. Just like anyone else, they need their space. My advice is not to smother him or he will take off in the other direction and quick. If he hasn't asked you out, he may not be ready. If he didn't IM you back, maybe he was busy. I wouldn't worry about the other girls...when you first start to like someone, you think if they even so much as look in another girl's direction they're flirting, but most of the time it's just your own paranoia. Give it time and if it's meant to be it will happen.
2007-06-14 17:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by lipglossandblack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with a guy once so i yelled at him because whenever he was around his friends he wouldnt talk to me so i said if that if how you want to be then i am not going to date u anymore and then he felt so bad we went out again and now he is nice to me no matter what !!
so say to him u must not realy like me if you cant talk to me when you are around other people so you are a waste of my time or something like that just tell him how you feel
2007-06-14 17:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by Carrottop 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're reading into it too much!
If he didn't want to know you, then he wouldn't be nice to you would he? You just need to stop being so possessive and paranoid and just back off a bit.
Remember that he does have friends and when he says he's busy it probably is because he is busy and he doesn't have time to talk with you. He'll ask you out in his own time.
2007-06-14 17:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whew. That's easy sweetie....let him do what he's gonna do. Dont pressure his sister to tell him to do something or make her feel bad. He talks to you after the sis cuz obviously he doesnt want to let her down. That guy just wants his space...give it to him. Your looking for something serious and he's not. You cant hate him for that. He tells you he likes you because he probably does in a small way, but wants to keep you there just incase. Till then leave your options open...keep your head up and dont let him play with you. GL
2007-06-14 17:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by blkhawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the good ole game of hard to get he's playing. Be up front, ask him what do he want from you. If he can't give you an answer then move on.
2007-06-14 17:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by situated 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Georgia S. He sounds kinda immature likes he is trying to impress somebody ! Just have a face to face with him and be honest ! If he don"t wise up then you deserve better !
2007-06-14 17:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not being mean. He's just a normal person who has a variety of interests and things to do and can't be at your beck and call 24/7.
2007-06-14 17:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do your own thing, how can you like someone that is mean to you. Romance is the greatest thing, when one is always treated with respect and care. It doesn't matter WHY he is mean to you, love yourself enough to not get treated with disrespect.
2007-06-14 17:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by LW 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh don't know? How about you ask him what he is getting at. Just be straight forward.
2007-06-14 17:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by oreoqueens 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋