i have my family and everything but its very hard for me to let him go i cry when i see him playing and everything i tried my best to past time with him please dont judge me please i need somebody to help me in motional i am very dipress right now i just i dont want to die right now i want to see my baby growth in my side god please give me time.to all the people how is going to read this thank you for you time and god bless you and your family.
2007-06-14 10:21:48 · 9 answers · asked by yuster18 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
oh wow.... im sorry. If there isnt anything i could do for my health then i would do the most so i could leave a good memory for my small kids... i would video tape myself letting them know what i like, how i met their dad, how i reacted when i was pregnaunt EVERYTHING even your flaws.... your favorite ice cream, videos, fav. pet, hobbys, capture yourself with them playing, give them advice on life, even on them getting married having kids.... make the best of it!!! leave them alot of happy memories so they could know how you were... show them how wonderfull their mother is.....
2007-06-14 10:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a 3 year old daughter and I would think what you are going through would be a normal thing. I had a breast cancer scare when she was a year and a half old. I cried the whole time. You might consider a journal of some sort or a video for you son so he can get to see you later in life or at least read something from you. This may also help you with the way you are feeling about things as well. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. God bless.
2007-06-14 10:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are alive now, don't think about death please. Enjoy yr child, love him and live for him. Nobody in this whole wide world knows his time of death, many times people were told by doctors that they are dying and ended up living a full happy life. Nothing is certain in life.
And even if u r so sure that u will die, why waste time crying, u should be living life, hugging and kissing yr child. As hard as it might be forget about dying, forget about death, forget about fear. Have strength, believe that God is merciful and kind and will not forget yr child.
I know that nobody can fully understand what u r going through and it is easy to talk but hard to do, but think about it what else can u do? I feel for u and yr family and wish u all the best in life, i hope u get well and live a full happy life.
2007-06-14 10:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by Hope 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
If you dieing, then it is really sad. But if you are, then the best thing to do is to find someone (person or organisation) to take care of the baby. Do you have any family who is willing to accept the baby?
You can look up newspapers (give an ad or search) for organisations which will take care of orphaned children.
When the baby is old enough he should know that you wanted good for him and loved him. So, make pictures of you and the baby, write letters to him, and explain your situation and other things. When he grows he will really like these things which you will leave behind.
Hope it helps.
2007-06-14 11:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you are having such a hard time. I know leaving your precious little boy behind is the hardest thing for you. While you still have time, write him letters to read when he is older. In them give him instructions on how you wish for him to live his life. Tell him about the things you and he enjoyed doing. Make pictures of yourself, lots of them, to be left to your son and your family. Make pictures of you and the baby doing all sorts of fun things. Leave him a special gift to be opened on his tenth birthday and make it something he can keep forever, in remembrance of you.
I know you are hurting so very bad and I will be praying that God will give you a miracle and let you live a very long and healthy life.
Rest and be at peace....we will all be praying for you to get well.
2007-06-14 10:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Laredo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in a very hard position, to have to leave this existence for the next with so much unfinished work (that of raising your child) is extraordiarily difficult. But, there is a reason for everything that happens to us, tho we may not understand at the time. Trust that what is happening to you, is meant to happen, and for a good reason. Make full use of what time you have left with your child, and then trust that there is a plan for his life as well. May your passing be pain free and dignified.
2007-06-14 10:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you dying of? How do you know you are dying? Did a doctor tell you?
Do yu have family here in America to help with the baby and take the baby?
Just be strong and try to live one day at a time, spend every minute with your child.
God give you strength.
2007-06-14 10:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to say. I will keep you in my prayers. I am sure your doctor who told you that you are dying could recommend someone for you to talk to.
You need maybe like a therapist to help you sort out your feelings. Someone to help you adjust to this new scary situation.
God bless & I'll lift up a prayer for you right now.
2007-06-14 10:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by Faith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, why would we judge you? You are dealing with one of the hardest things I can imagine! You hold and look at him/her as much as you can! Your sweet little one is going to know they they are loved and rest assured that you'll leave an imprint on their heart and soul as long as they live! God bless you and I'm praying for you!!
2007-06-14 10:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid God is with you and your child. Make every minute count by being happy when your around him so he doesn't feel your sadness. Will pray for you both.
2007-06-14 10:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋