I'm a guy and see a woman at work with her fly open. Should I or another woman tell her?

Question

If I tell her, I'd hate to be subject to the "Why you looking there?" questions. Just trying to help.

Answer 1

Mention it to another female co-worker (you can explain it to her that you weren't being a sick guy), and have her tell her. I think that's the best way. I would want someone to tell me.

Answer 2

I'd want you to tell me, but since I don't know the woman, better play it safe and say just keep your mouth shut.

And telling another woman to tell her still proves that you were looking down there, so that solves nothing.

Answer 3

Personally, if my fly is open I want to know and I don't care who tells me!

Just say, "X your fly is open' and then go on with your work as though nothing has happened. Don't worry ~ she'll be so busy running to the ladies to fix it up she won't have time to think you are looking where you shouldn't!

(I don't think you are looking 'there' either, I have noticed men's flys open on occasion and told them, it's not that I've been ogling them, sometimes you just see what you see!).

Good luck :-)

Answer 4

I think it depends on your relationship with this woman;

If she's the fun and flirty type, then tell her yourself, make a bit of a joke of it

On the other hand, if she's a serious type, or she might take offence to it, then it's probably best to get a female co-worker to tell her

Hope this is of some help, Citi

Answer 5

yes, what if half the men in the office saw her with her fly down? its better one than two or twenty (or however many men are in your office)

she most likely will not ask why you were looking there because thats a very childish thing to do, however if she does just say (if her underwear was showing and it was colored) "I noticed some (insert color here) on your pants and I noticed your fly was down"

or just tell her that you weren't looking ther on purpose. she will understand and probably thank you.

Answer 6

Most women would appreciate you telling them to avoid the embarrassment of someone important noticing, especially at the office. The big thing here is to be discrete about it and I think you fill find most people, women included will thank you for letting them know.

Answer 7

I don't know what kind of woman she might be, but I wouldn't care who told me, I'd just be glad they did.

As for "Why are you looking there?" I don't think anyone can help but notice an open fly as long as they're looking at someone ... doesn't mean "crotch staring" at all.

Answer 8

I wouldn't care who it was, just so somebody told me! Just mention it and go on. Either to another subject or another location. She will be thankful you mentioned it. If it was you, wouldn't you want someone to tell you.Kinda off to the side so as not to draw attention to it.

Answer 9

Simply take her aside, somewhere private and tell her, whisper. She'll be more embarrased knowing that she has been walking around with her zipper down than " Why was he was looking down there".Sometimes, a down zipper can be quite noticeable and not because you were checking her out. She'll be thankful that you told her !!

Answer 10

It is no easier for a female to tell a male that their "fly" is open. But for a female you could quietly say, "your zipper is down" and nothing more.