an office fling and she knows about my other two girlfriends, heck she even covers for me. I'm trying to narrow it down to one girl and the office fling since the office romance one doesnt mind if I date other women. What should I do?
2007-06-14 08:42:02 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes and your office fling is not a good girl also for knowing and still doing it.
2007-06-14 08:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never have a trusting relationship With a woman if you are dating more then one. They Will believe that they weren't good enough for you, just good enough to still have. If you ever want to get married I would ditch all of the girls and start new. The Office girl I wouldn't trust if she doesn't really care about the others. The other two... if you really cared about one of them I would tell them your secret and try to stay friends and ma bey even still date. I would hate to be in your relationship ,but ma bey you should try just to date and jump into a hand full of relationships.
2007-06-14 08:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by Raine Foster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready to be in a serious relationship and are still feeling like having a fling, so have one, do it safely, as well as do it with keeping in mind that others might be hurt.
I would be up front with the other two women and let them know if you arn't open for a serious relationship. Be honest, dont be a creep.
2007-06-14 08:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal..."Stud". Obviously you're not being honest with anyone other than the girl at the office. Maybe you should let them all know you dont want to be exclusive, and you want to weigh out your options. Keep "Willy" to yourself for a while. Get tested for all STD's to cover your ***!!! Maybe if you remove him from the triangle you'll have only an itch for one of them. Otherwise, have fun as long as nobody is married, too serious or a psycho path.
2007-06-14 08:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all of the women don't know that you are seeing other people, then what you are doing is called cheating. Break it off with all of the women accept for the flake who doesn't seem to care that you are a player. The other two can do way better than you.
2007-06-14 08:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware of STD's and be safe id be with the office girl then again if she doesnt care then she just wants sex n money out of you while one of the others probly cares for you and wants to be there for you choose wisely before the other 2 find out
2007-06-14 08:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by demari b due august 13, 2009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing, office romances are a bad idea. I know it sounds nice, but it won't end well. Other than that, just dump one of those other girls, but satying with the office girl is a bad idea.
2007-06-14 08:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by redheadedrant 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends. are you sexually involved with all three? if so then yes it is wrong. You need to let them know what is going on. If they do not like that you are still playing the field, then give them the choice to leave. They should be able to pick between a group of people as well.
2007-06-14 08:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should start to think about yourself. Why do you feel like you need three girlfriends? Most people who have more than one significant other in their life feel the need to compensate for something. Maybe you should get in touch with yourself before you string along three girls, regardless if one doesn't care.
2007-06-14 08:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL U SOUDNT HAVE THREE GIRLS AT THE SAME TIME. secondly dump the office fling
2007-06-14 08:47:25 · answer #10 · answered by miajays 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋