ok so i have an ex, call me a liar but we loved eachother. i know in my heart that it was more than ordinary love. i messed up a lot of times because i made the mistake of getting with him while i had feelingings for another ex. we messed up one too many times and from that day he has completly ignored me,i broke his heart and this is his way of forgetting. but i have thee strongest feeling in my heart that this isnt how its supossed to be. this is the only time that i ahvent been able to make it go away. what can i say to him to make him respond,ive tried so many times.please dont think im stupid or immature. i just really need to figure this out. i know its not right.
2007-06-14 08:36:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just have to give it some time. If he doesn't want to talk to you, he won't. Trust me, if a guy doesn't want to be talked to, there is nothing that'll make him change his mind until he says it time. Tell him you will wait for him to contact you and that you love him. If he doesn't contact you within a month, then chances are, he doesn't want to be with you. At that point, you gotta move on. It'll be tough, but you just gotta. That's where your support group of friends and family come in. Go out and have fun and you never know, he might call you back.
2007-06-14 08:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by scoobydoo316316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're correct, this isn't right. You did a very foolish thing, and now he cannot trust you. Nothing that you say will make any kind of impact anymore. You are going to have to show him that you are sorry, and that you want to have a second chance. If he says yes, make sure that you both work hard at your relationship. Don't bring up stupid stuff from the past. Make sure that you both understand that this is a serious commitment. If he says no, let him know how you feel and leave it at that. Broken trust is one of the hardest wounds to heal...
2007-06-14 15:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by r.p. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really cant, he is hurt right now and I think you should respect that.
To try to correct the situation you should tell him ur sorry accept u were wrong, let him go...and learn from ur mistakes...
Maybe in the future you can give him a call or send him a text to let him know you still think about him. I know it’s hard but that's life.. If he is for you he will forgive you.
Good luck and next time make sure you think about things before you hurt someone else.
2007-06-14 15:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by snap242 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound stalkerish, but just show up somewhere. Weather it be his house or work or where ever. Dress up nicely and have a plan where to take him out to dinner. Then just ask him when you see him. If he ignores you just look in his eyes and say, after all the great times we had together you owe me the chance to explain myself. (Or something to that extent) Then take him out and explain how you feel. Touch him to let him know you care about him. Either hold his hand, or just put your hand on his arm. Make sure to give him a kiss or more to end the night. As shallow as it seems guys know that most girls wont just have sex or make out for the heck of it. So if you do somethin to that extent... one it will prolly make his night, and more importantly it will show him you care about him. Just make sure to explain you made some mistakes. And that if he gives you time you know that you can be the girl he wants.
2007-06-14 15:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ya really u r confused r u some drug addict. Listen first of all focus what u want and when u see him and judge him d best, continue. Men r always forgiving so try to do that. Well if your luv is true u wud surely have a happy relationship...
2007-06-14 15:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by shaunak_kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you dont have get through with someone heat you but if you see heam or soithing dont set with him long time and you dont have to tell him that you know he heat you no just acte like there is nothing betwen you and him or leave him couse he didnt deserve you and if you realy love him you have to do something that make him fell happy with u and after whil hi will start to love you but you have to be cearfull about the things that you will say it for him and dont make him fell that you love him just do how you are
2007-06-14 16:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by ruby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You screwed him over now you need to let him go and move on.
It's the mature thing to do.
You are just feeding your own ego by trying to get him back. You don't really want him back, you just don't like the fact that he doesn't want you any more.
2007-06-14 15:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by kimpetuous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how it feels i got a girl hwo wont even talk to me for a year now.
i cant give no answer but can give you my sympathy.
let time do his work thats what i believe and good luck.
2007-06-14 15:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, he doesn't want you anymore. Nothing you can do to change that.
2007-06-14 15:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MORE THAN ORDINARY LOVE. what drugs are you talking. I'll bet it's crystal meth
2007-06-14 15:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋