We met, fell in love, enjoyed, but suddenly, she is trying to avoid me. Why would this be so ?

Answer 1

Because you weren't in love, you had some lust for each other and now she realizes the reality of who you are and what she did, and she's not happy with herself. That's the problem of "falling in love" when you're not, sex takes over and the head stops thinking. Once the brain gets back in gear, things change.

Answer 2

I thought it happened to me as well but:
1- she might be busy right now, so she can't give all of her time like usual. She will come back
2- She might feel that you control her life even if that is not your intent but she can feel that. So just stay away too, don't bother her too much, but you ave to be there when she needs and wants to talk with you.
3-It might be in you. You need her so much that you can't get enough of her. Be relax and time will tell

Answer: The right move should be to tell her that you feel some distance and you don't great because of that, be frank but don't try to blame her, no one likes that. Then, enjoy life, if you love her so much, think that you will need to live together, you will not live your entire days in her arms or vice-versa.

Answer 3

Let me break it down for you. She lost the attraction. Whatever you did to hook at the onset is gone. You probably got comfortable and starting acting different. What I mean by different is acting clingy, sucking up to her, and being a pushover. Women don't like wussies or nice guys. They're simply just not attracted to them. Give her space, give her the gift of missing you, and do not become predictiable. They find it extremly boring. Especially the super hotties that have TONS of options.

Answer 4

She might be feeling smothered by attention, before she says the usual line of " maybe we should see other people" back off , take some time to breathe. Like the saying, absence makes the heart grow fonder, show her you have the patience of a saint.

Answer 5

as someone said YOU NEED TO CONFRONT HER ABOUT IT, NOW. NOW.

dont give up, if she doesnt answer right away. stay on it. She may act differently, but she will appreciate it later, because it shows that you care about her and want to know whats wrong.

i had this problem and i later found out it was because my girlfriend wanted to not have a hard break up when i went to college, because shes still in high school, so was trying t slowly disconnect. But i have no intention of breaking up with her, so its fine.

You need to find out the answer from her, and stay on it. She will act different, but you can break her eventually. good luck.

Answer 6

Ask her, not strangers on Y.A. Talk with her, tell her how you feel, and pay attention to her eyes, expression, body language... and what she says. Really pay attention, not just nod. Take it from there. If she's into you, you'll know. If she's not, then move on and lead a happy life. You'll meet the right person.

Answer 7

You should be asking her and not us.

Maybe she's a bad liar and figures if she avoids you it'll save her from having to tell you about some secret she's been keeping. Heck I have no idea.

Answer 8

She saw your bank balance. Women are like that. Next time, hide the stuff and tell her that she only gets access to the financials after she has put out every day for a solid week. By then, you'll probably be tired of her anyway.

Answer 9

She's might be moving on. Have you asked her what is going on on her life? It could be a million things. From the tartar on your teeth to shame about debt she has. If she will not answer you, then you will have to move on too. It must be a huge disappointment to you.

Answer 10

This sounds more like infatuation than love.

Or, she feels guilty about something she's doing or thoughts she's having. Talk to her about it. And no matter what, stand up for yourself. If you feel you can't trust her, move on.