How many is too many?

Question

If you are a single woman living in London and are sexually active it is inevatible that you will rack up a certain amount of men on your quest for the one or simply for fun. So how do you know when you have gone overboard? How many is too many? And what is the definition of a sl*t? There are so many different perspectives on this subject depending on religion and/or morals that certainly it is up to the person to define?

Answer 1

To each his own..if you are using protection and not flaunting around how many people you have slept with, then unless you are sleeping with multiple in a day your probably not a ****. If you feel dirty and like a **** then you probably are, so just do what/ who makes you happy and forget everyone else!!

Answer 2

I've also asked myself this same question. Why is there such a double standard on how many men women sleep with? I think you should be able to sleep with as many men as you want to. Hell men do it all the time and they don't get lectured or called sluts about having slept with 50+ women. Why should we?

Honey I say don't even worry about it. However in my own opinion my definition of too many would be when you feel that you've slept with enough men. It can get to a point to where although you enjoy the variety you just want that one great sex partner to you know settle down with. When you reach that point then that will be when you know enough is enough. Until then I say "do you" and don't give a shiit about what other people say. Some women are so sexually frigid. I say if you're an uninhibited woman then do what makes you happy.

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Answer 3

You have gone overboard when you start getting sore or can't remember the name of the person who's on top of you.
There is no such thing as a sl*t.
It is a derogatory word created to deny women sexual freedom and choices over their bodies.
Don't believe the lies because life is WAY too short and no one is judging you but yourself.

To L-Boogie - It isn't "just the way it happens". You make the world you live in and if you put down other women because they follow their own desires then you are giving men permission to put women down as well thus continuing the negative cycle. It is up to each and every one of us to create the world we live in.
You are an active participant in your world.

Answer 4

252 is too many. The official definition of a sl*t is a female who regularly has several cocks at the same time. For example, 2 up her anus, 2 up her p*ssy and 2 in her mouth simultaneously. Oh and maybe one c*ck in her ear as well. Can I make an appointment?

Answer 5

I would advice any one women or men to keep it to the rightone its the best present that a couple can do to each other and try to make a value to your body, I know the temptation is high but try to resist and take control of tour self and find the right one then you ll feel that you done the better thing to do and you wont have a regret to have opened your self to any passing by .

Answer 6

That's a question only you can answer. It depends on your values. If it bothers you that you've be with so many people, perhaps you should take a step back and revalute your position, and make necessary changes. If you feel that you're being true to yourself and have no problems with the way you conduct yourself, don't let anyone else make you feel like you're doing anything wrong!

Answer 7

I don't really agree with this to be honest. I am not really religious or anything, but as my dream wedding is a white church wedding, I don't believe in sex before marriage. So in my life, even one would be too many.

But at the end of the day, I don't expect people to live by my beliefs. So as long as you are happy with the way you live your life and you aren't hurting anybody. So providing you are careful and don't have an issue with the way you live your life, then there's nothing wrong with it.

Answer 8

That's a good question.
I think you answered your own question - it depends on the person and her morals (or lack thereof).
I think if a lady sleeps with many different men w/o regards for their feelings and w/o getting to know them, that young lady is loose. I also think that is applicable if she only sleeps with a handful of men under the pretense that she just wants to sleep around.
I know, it's a total double standard. If men do that, they get a medal. If women do it, it's trashy and gross. I guess that's just the way it happens.

Answer 9

when urinating hurts. when the doctor says whoa never seen that before. A sl*t would be someone you could realistically see doing a porn movie. Someone you'd be embarrassed to bring home to mom and dad.

Answer 10

who's going to know how many you've been with is their someone keeping count? Your life do what you want. Screw everyone else, (as far as what they may think) not literally, unless of course that's what you want.