JUDAISM...how to convert?

Question

i've just read a question that got me really clicked into this. the websites given were cool. BUT can any one convert to the jewish religion or does there have to be a family/genetic link somewhere ?? and would a synagogue allow a non jew in 'just to see ' what it was like and if you felt comfortable, thanks.

Answer 1

I wanted to celebrate Hannukah last year with my best friend because she was on her own - and her being Jewish I thought I would make her feel good at that time fo year. I don't think there was any problem, anyway we just celebrated at home with a Menorah etc. I don't see why they would turn you away, if you're curious. Everyone is allowed to be surely?

Answer 2

Yes you can convert.

It is not easy and it's not something to do on a whim but it is very do-able.

The easiest way to get started is to check out synagogues in your area. As long as you're respectful of people and the sanctuary, most people will be glad to have you there and answer any questions you have. Most synagogues are affiliated with a broader organization connecting synagogues of similar values. However, it's often helpful to call ahead and ask what acceptable dress is at the particular synagogue you're interested in (make sure you do this before sunset on Friday, most synagogues won't have someone answering the phone during Shabbos!).

As far as conversion itself, spending time at the synagogue you're interested in is very very helpful. Coming to services and events, attending classes, these things tell the rabbi and leaders of the congregation that you are serious about learning more. When you do decide to approach the rabbi about conversion, expect to be turned away. DON'T be offended by this! Rabbis are trained to turn away a seeker, sometimes three times. What they want to know is how you handle rejection and how determined you are to persue the path you've chosen. Once you do get in, you'll study religious texts, Hebrew, customs, and rituals for a period of time. Depending on where you go, this could be three months to a year or more. When the rabbi determines that you're ready, in some synods, you'll be asked to go before a religious court who will examine your knowledge and faith. They aren't looking for perfect answers but again, for determination and seriousness of intent. They're also looking and the reasons why you want to convert. After that, in all except some Reform congregations, you'll go to a mikvah for ritual immersion. Once you've done that, you're a Jew in every sense of the word.

Answer 3

Yes, you can convert to Judaism. I know, because I did it. You will need to contact a rabbi near you.

Conversion to Judaism requires study; you'll learn the history, beliefs, laws, and customs of Judaism. When you and the rabbi feel you are ready, then you will complete the process. That usually entails going to a mikvah (a ritual bath); you will then stand before the congregation and agree to become bound by the covenant. It's a VERY happy occasion when we welcome someone into the "tribe." :-)

I'd like to suggest a couple of books: "Choosing Judaism" by Lydia Kukoff is excellent (she is also a convert to Judaism). "Choosing a Jewish Life" by Anita Diamant is likewise very good.

You may also want to check to see if a synagogue near you will be offering an introductory Judaism class any time soon. They are usually open to anyone interested; some people call them "conversion classes" but you're not necessarily expected to convert when it's over - they're just good overview classes, and often used for non-Jewish spouses of Jews to learn more about Judaism.

One thing you should be prepared for: It is traditional for a rabbi to turn a potential convert away three times, to be sure this is what the person truly wants to do; be persistent! :-)

You are always welcome to come to a service and to participate in community activities. If you're not familiar with Jewish liturgy, you may want to contact the synagogue office before you go; lots of synagogues will have someone available who can sit with you, introduce you around, and help you understand what's going on if you have questions. The office will also have service times; in addition, many synagogues have their own web sites. You can go to one of the web sites below to get directories of congregations.

It's been a little over 10 years since I converted, and it is one of the best decisions I ever made in my life. Enjoy!

Answer 4

My husband was really interested in Judaism, and he attended a synagogue once or twice, and the people there were really kind and open to him. It's typical for Judaism to be "in the family," but you can convert. Judaism just isn't the kind of religion that advertises for converts, though, unlike Christianity, so you'd want to speak with a Rabbi about it.

Answer 5

Yes it is possible for anyone to convert to Judaism.

But it is a very difficult process that can take several years.

And Yes you would be free to go into any Synagogue though in some it would be respectful if you were to dress modestly in line with the community.

Answer 6

Absolutely yes to both answers. Anyone at all can convert--it takes anywhere from 1-2 years of study. And anyone is welcome at any time to come to synagogue and look around and sit in on a service.

Answer 7

Yes, you can go to the synagogue and being a Jew is not belonging to a race, it is a belief.

Answer 8

There is a great book called "Choosing a Jewish Life" by Anita Diamant. It is a great guide for what to expect in going through the process, as well as in making a well-informed decision.

Answer 9

Of course you can stop by to see, call a temple in your area and talk to them about it.

The process usually takes about a year with classes and sessions with a rabbi culminating in a immersion in a ritual bath called a Mikvah.

If you have any specific questions feel free to email me.

Answer 10

Of course you cannot convert, People say they do yeah yeah, but the truth is you are either Jewish or you are not.

Why are you being so horrible to the McCanns and rude to other women on this forum?