I have a bf and I love him a lot... the other day some one about 9 yrs older than me said that when I got older that maybe we could date, so he is going to give me his email address at a party , how do I get it from him with out leading him on anymore I do like him, but I can't imaginge dating anyone but my bf....I know that I want to be friends for a while... please help.. if I made sense. (should I tell him about my bf?)
2007-06-14 07:05:32 · 13 answers · asked by squirrely 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah tell him about your boyfriend and I wouldn't get the email to talk to him it will only cause problems for you and your boyfriend if he found out. Trust me this has happened to me lol. If you want to be with your boyfriend then be with him and no one else.
2007-06-14 07:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him about your BF. If you're really serious, DON'T accept the email address. Internet relationships are dangerous territory anyway. People end up feeling this false sense of intimacy. It's dumb.
It sounds, though, like you're enjoying flirting with the edge. I wouldn't even accept this guy's contact info, but it's your choice. Definitely see he's reaction when you tell him you have a BF...
2007-06-14 07:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by barlow_girl87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is OK to have guy friends, girl friends all sorts of friends. And yes, you should absolutely tell him about your bf. Keep everything out in the open without secrets and all will be right in the universe.
2007-06-14 07:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by Flying_James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm . . . no, don't bother with the old guy. You're too young for him, first of all (age differences are more significant when you're young, by the way). And then you have a boyfriend. You're wasting time even talking to that other guy. Messing with him will only cause you problems. Have a nice day!
2007-06-14 07:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u really love ur boyfriend than I think u should be honest with him and as for that guy he seems to like flirting with younger girls but don't worry about him that much but about ur boy
2007-06-14 07:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by kajal c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't even old enough to date this other guy then you shouldn't even bother being his friend. Also, you should really think abut how you would feel if your boyfriend were doing that to you. Good luck.
2007-06-14 07:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really do think you shoul tell him you have a bf and make it a statement that he is your friend . try kicking it in groups with other friends not just you and him. because when you kick it one on one his taking it as a date deep down even when your not.
2007-06-14 07:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by tootts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to lead him on, I would tell him about your boyfriend. And I would tell your boyfriend about him, just to be fair to both of them.
2007-06-14 07:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by Bran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be honest with him and let your bf in on it if y want you just want to be friends with the other guy, then he won't care and he might help you with the problem with the other guy..........
2007-06-14 07:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by ~~Niaomi Saleed<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. tell the guy that you have a boyfriend and that you just want to be friends.
2007-06-14 07:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋