My ex and I was together for ten months. I know he's an ex for a reason but I miss him. we broke up three weeks ago, right after graduation. We started to fade and we ddin't see each other much anymore. We still talk but he told me not to say I love you anymore to him I know I should mov on but it's hard when you find your furst true love and now he's just a friend. I still love him very much but I want how it used to be. I want everything we had before but I don't think I can have that back anymore. He's changing, he still flirts but the jealous person inside me couldn't stand if he had a new girlfriend. I hear "Corey got a haircut, he looks so adoreale!" I want to be the first one to know those kind of things. not the last person, you know? He calls me but I wish we were more like before, so how do I go on? ( i know that sounds stypud but I need help?
2007-06-14 06:14:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing you can do but move on...
2007-06-14 19:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
moving on means stop talking to the old guy and that is what he is he has made that very clear and that is what he wants you to do . so throw ur self into a job for the summer or something of that nature that way you dont have much time to think about him and you will find someone else when you are not looking . good luck .
2007-06-14 06:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you meet someone else, as crazy as that sounds, you will forget all about this guy. Try to focus on other aspects of your life. Work on being a more rounded individual and who know what can happen in the future.
2007-06-14 06:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by CrashCondon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breaking up after graduation sounds like one thing to me. because i did this to my ex about 7 yrs ago. he is tryin to get freedom so he can do what he wants without feeling guilty for doing it. if you 2 are not together and he hooks up with someone you cant get mad or upset about it. and if he is going to college he just wants that freedom from responsibility. you need to go out get your haircut, nails done etc... and move on yourself. it will make yourself feel better.
2007-06-14 06:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by random guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Find a new hobby, meet new people, something to get you away from him. Obviously he doesn't want it back, so it won't work. It won't make the situation any better to dwell on the past and what you once had.
2007-06-14 06:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by rsdSUCKS!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moving on isn't an easy thing, but if you yourself know that theres no way things can go back to how you want them, then that is a good indication that moving on is your best bet. everyone goes about moving on differently so do what works best for you. sorry i couldn't help much more than that.
2007-06-14 06:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by csspamz1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being friends. Move on. It's over. You cannot have things the way they used to be.
2007-06-14 06:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do the world and this guy a favor... let it go... he's moved on and so should you. You should concentrate on something else, maybe pull out a dictionary and learn to spell.
2007-06-14 06:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by SOG Wrath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and if your still in school study a little more!!
2007-06-14 06:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋