i still think he likes me?

Question

so my guy friend, right?
well my friends told him that i liked him
& he responded by saying, "i only like her as a friend"
but its so weird
because his ACTIONS speak completly the opposite.
he`s been getting really touchy, sweet with me
& i still think he likes me
am i being lead on?
i don`t knowww. i really really do like him though :]

Answer 1

actions speak louder than words. Yup, he likes you more than a friend! Maybe he's embarrassed to admit it to your friends! How cute!

Answer 2

This has happened to me. I told my friend that I liked him and he started being more friendly to me than usual. After a night out clubbing we got kinda close and touchy, but when he found out that I wasn't interested in sleeping with him he went back to the "friends mode" the next day on and told me that he only sees me as a friend.

Your friend acting sweet and touchy could mean anything. He might like you more than a friend but is not yet ready to admit it yet. At the same time, him knowing that you like him might lead him to believe that you might be an easy lay. So you'd better talk to him and find out what's really on his mind before you give yourself high hopes.

Trust me, a crush is easy to get over when you know that nothing might come of it. But once you realize that he might also like you and then get your hopes shattered, it waaaay difficult to get over it. A month later and I'm still dealing with a broken-heart trying to make excuses for his behavior and feeling insanely stupid at the same time for being so easily led on.

Answer 3

Wait for him to make the first move.
He blew it by saying he only liked you as a friend to people he KNEW would take what he said back to you.
He's either leading you on, being a normal human-being-jerk and getting off on teasing you, etc etc.
If he changed his mind, it's up to him to do something about it now because you did your part by making sure he knew how you felt about him.
I'm sorry that you're put in this situation, I know how tough it can be to have a crush on someone who acts like they want to ride off into the sunset with you, but they really don't.
Just play it cool and wait it out.

Answer 4

There are a couple possibilities here:
First, he might be leading you on. You will know he is doing this if:
1. He flirts with other girls too
2. You are the only who is calling or asking him to hang out
3. He talks to you about liking other girls
4. He refers to you as his little sister
5. He wants to do things like cuddle or kiss but he doesn't want a relationship.

He may also be in denial this makes it tricky because it is the middle ground between wanting to be with you and being too comfortable with how things are as friends. He gets the perks of being with you and getting to flirt with you like crazy without the fuss of the boyfriend girlfriend label.

Last option is that he does like you but he didn't want you to find out from your friends or he was too embarrassed to say. You will know it is this option if:
1. He calls you all of the time
2. He doesn't talk about liking other girls
3. He writes you sweet notes or does romantic things like singing to you, opening doors, making sure you are comfortable when your together.
4. He only wants to hang out with you and he invites you to come and hang with the guys.
5. His friends start teasing him whenever your around.

I hope this helps. I also hope that your right and he really does like you. Good luck with love!

Answer 5

I think he still likes you. How many girlfriends has he had in the past. I said I only wanted to be friends with the first girl who said she liked me even though she was kind of cute and nice. I said no because I felt pressure to. I was always the one rejected and felt it was my turn to say no. But she got over it real easy. I think he's also afraid of possibly ruining your friendship if things don't work out.

Answer 6

maybe he doesn't want others to think he likes you more than a friend because your too crazy, your profile says your "down for anything", that's pretty crazy to me, but some guys like that, I do. and some guys are afraid to open up and do anything. Those guys are a little hesitant on opening up in front of friends.. Get him alone and open up to him on your feelings and see what he does, ask him what's going on with his feelings toward you... communication is a VERY IMPORTANT part of a relationship.

Good Luck!

be prepared he could open up and kiss you, or shoot you down and just want to stay friends, but whatever happens you will find your answer.

Answer 7

either one of two things are goin through his head.
1. He actually likes you and being touchy feely is his way of showing it.
2. He now knows you like him and he's going to use that to get a piece of.... from you.
truth hurts i know but i really hope for your sake #1 is what he is doing.
good luck with it.

Answer 8

I think the best way for you to find out how he feels is by simply talking to him. Explain to him how you feel and how you perceive his actions. Then its possible that once he finds out that you and he are feeling the same, he may open up. For now, it seems that he may be afraid of " committment" or rejection. Good luck!!

Answer 9

well, he may be telling your friends that just because he doesn't want to tell them about it. chances are if hes being touchy and sweet with you then he has somewhat of an interest.

Answer 10

You are probably reading into what you want to hope for.

Some guys will also start getting touchy feely specifically because they now know you like them and they want to tease you. (Girls are like that too, actually! Think about it.)

Or maybe he's gay and now he's really happy that you like him and he's touching your clothing because he wants to borrow some of it?