a friend came 2 me and asked me wat i would do in that situation. at first i didnt understand wat she said, then i got it but i am noy sure wat to do? help plees.
2007-06-14 05:47:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only secret I would keep is a surprise birthday party. Otherwise, tell him that you're not interested in keeping anything for him.
2007-06-14 05:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what the secret is. Is it one that will hurt their relationship, if so she still has the right to know. Or is it one that he's ashamed to tell her for fear of the fact that he might lose her cause she wouldn't understand? If so, you'll carefully have to weigh the pros and cons. Either way though, I see no reason why he should feel uncomfortable confidingin his girl if he truly loves and trusts her. Think about it carefully but above all else, encourage him to be open and honest with his girl.
2007-06-14 06:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the secret is NOT life threatening then you should just keep the secret. You don't want to be the one to start drama. Or better yet, tell the person that you don't want to know the secret to begin with.
2007-06-14 05:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by I know EVERYTHING! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. If you are really loyal to your friend, you wouldn't keep any secrets no matter what. Plus, by you saying that you don't want to be involve, you are helping yourself from not being caught in the middle of everything.
2007-06-14 05:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by devinity04230 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him no way, no matter what the secret was.
I learned never be a third party to anything like that, things can back fire and you could lose a good friend
2007-06-14 05:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by Angell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your friend means more to you than he does and ask him not to tell you anything "secret", you do not want to become intimate with him. A secret is an intimate situation.
2007-06-14 05:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by sammie_miles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. Boyfriends come and go but real friends last forever.
2007-06-14 05:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what secret is (if its harmful to either, i would tell) and how good of a friend u are to the person
2007-06-14 05:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me before and i did keep it, but i felt so bad about doing it i finally told her
2007-06-14 05:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by million$? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tel your friend. After all your friend is your friend and the partner should not involve you.
2007-06-14 05:50:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋