An acceptable way of dumping her...... I dont see why i even have to give her the common curtisey of leting her know that we have ended ..... I think i should just be able to leave everything where it is and walk out and never look back......
2007-06-14 04:27:02 · 41 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why should i tell her.... so that she can have closure ..... maybe i dont want her to have any closure.....
2007-06-14 04:38:01 · update #1
Just dump the b**ch!!!!
2007-06-14 08:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nellie Angel 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think the mere fact your asking this question means you haven't got a full sense of satisfaction over the situation otherwise you wouldn't need to ask.
I think you have an idealist way of how you would like things to end, hey maybe your right, she probably deserves it but i guess you may need a sense of closure too, no?
2007-06-14 22:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by D.W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a quick way of getting over someone but without a proper closure, sometimes it is hard to believe it is really over. Sometimes, it leaves both party with lots of 'what if' - what if I had try harder etc. Not the best way I will say.
2007-06-14 04:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What sort of f*****g prat are you?
You are a coward, not a real man.
You little baby, do you wear diapers?
Have the balls and the guts and the DECENCY to end it properly and professionally.
A real man would take her aside, explain things calmly, make sure she's OK for money and stuff and then gracefully leave.
I'm a bloke and men like you really embarass me.
What a gimp.
2007-06-14 04:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by jojo5050 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just dump her and be through with it. If you do that then she may think you are still an item. Just end it. Go and see her now and tell her its over rather than asking people on here.
2007-06-14 04:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by slashjunior2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to, but as they say 'what goes around comes around.'. You might find you are in love with someone one day and they just walk out and leave you and you have no reason why. How would you feel?
2007-06-14 05:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by magic_porridge_pot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have no respect for her and that attitude shows you are not a very caring person. Stop being a coward and tell her its over before you hurt her even more!
2007-06-14 04:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Kristen C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must have really hurt you. But you have the opportunity to be the bigger person here.
Tell her what she did wrong and why you are dumping her, this will save you having to deal with her later.
Oh, and be a bit pickier about who you date next time!!!
2007-06-14 04:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Emma W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her why, at least in an email or letter if you can't bring yourself to do it to her face - if she's that much of a sh** girlfriend, at least try and make her better for the next bloke!
2007-06-14 04:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me the least you could do is give her a quick call or even an email, letting her know it's over.
2007-06-14 04:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an ***. Tell her if you don't care about her and it does not sound like you do--then you shouldn't have any trouble just saying "hey I don't want to do this anymore". Get some guts--then get a B/F.
2007-06-14 04:31:50 · answer #11 · answered by M. Nurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋