I was thinking that maybe my relationships are not working because I am not open to different types of guys...meaning different races. So I was thinking maybe dating someone out of my race like a white guy. I have always been attracted and even had a chance but I was always nervous because my friends say that they are different then black guys...meaning they like different things, they react different,feel differently, and that scares me because I dont know how I should be or if I wouldn't know how to react to good or bad things that may be different then what I am use to. So my question is whats the difference between black guys and white guys when it comes to relationships? Or maybe guys can tell me what they would do for a girl in their relationship.
Please don't offend anyones race or culture this is not anything like that. Thank you
2007-06-14 04:22:52 · 14 answers · asked by PoshBCD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a black male.
I'm sorry that you feel that way. I don't know what kind of black men you've been dating but, I can assure you that real men do not treat women as posessions. The one thing that I can tell you is this. Don't date at all. You have to first know what you like. You have to be able to be pleased with yourself and not really look for a man to be able to fill that. You have to rest of your life for relationships, and trust me, you lose yourself in them. Get a relationship with you, and wait for the right man, whether he's black or white. Men hate dating women that want relationships. If you want a relationship, don't date. You'll then draw a respectable guy. When you date you draw all kinds of wierdo's with alteria motif's and you end up in this state. You'll run through every race at this pace.
Slow down. Stop dating. Invest more attention to you. The right guy will come. We appreciate a woman who's turned down the world and then accepts us. Not one who's experienced the world and we're the only one's left.
Good luck.
2007-06-14 04:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by clayborne112 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
experience it for yourself. all men are different in many ways, race dont make anyone different. you may date a black guy that reminds you of a white guy or date a white guy that reminds you of a black guy. so open your options and date who you want. dont worry about your friends. just know that people still look at interracial dating/couples with a funny face. i am rican and my wife is black, i always dated black women, and i am use to those roaming eyes. have fun. bd
2007-06-14 04:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it has so much to do with the race of the guy that you are dating and it does of the quality of guy you are dating. Try dating someone outside of your normal realm for once whether it someone preppy or whatever. Try different races also, you never know until you do.
2007-06-14 04:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer is you can't judge anyone by a stereotype or even a statistical profile, because the instant case could be different. You have to judge people by what they say and do, and mostly by what they do. Even statistician will say statistics never predict the instant case, only probabilities.
My advice is date a lot of different people until you find someone who meets your needs and someone with whom you can meet their needs. Color really doesn't matter... honest... personal experience. It's the individual and his/her personality. Good luck.
2007-06-14 04:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt think there would be too much different between us each man has his own idenity so no man is the same...all balcks are not alike and neither is whites you cannot judge a book by its cover or put us all in a category or a box and call us all the same...cause i can treat you just as good or even better than a white man could and vise versa
2007-06-14 05:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only real difference I have found is that their skin color is different. Some guys no matter what color are a s s h o l e s and some are good guys. You really need to look past color and appearance and look at the person.
2007-06-14 04:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Still*Perfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated men of both races. I dont think there is much of a difference...
2007-06-14 04:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by lilmisscute23 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can't really imagine there would be much difference except for skin color. Only one way to find out!
2007-06-14 04:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A black guy will treat you as an possesion, tool, or "his".
A white guy WILL go down on you, treat you with respect and make you breakfast in the morning!!!!!
2007-06-14 04:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
shoot, I dont know I am white... but thats a tough question because every guy is different.
good luck though
2007-06-14 04:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by Soap Box Preacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋