I am having horrid dreams and it is affecting my love life and I think I could lose my girlfriend over them. My girl looks alot like her mother and there the problem lies. I keep closing my eyes when i am in bed and my mind starts to wander and other women's faces pop into my mind. I am sure we have all done this. But when I let my imagination go wild the picture that pops in is . .. .
MY MOTHER IN LAW !!! God horror shock......
The twist is that she is better looking than my her daughter. The mother's face is stuck in my mind and she screams things like "gimme that young c-oc-k!"
I think I am sick. I am lost. Only reply if you can help me.........
2007-06-14 00:20:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Oh Vicar- you really are a sick little puppy, aren't you.
Perhaps you should discuss this with your wife and mother in law together.
You may get lucky, and it's cheaper than seeking professional help.
2007-06-14 00:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by nealo d 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Well sometimes people have those kind of dreams, it is usually cause they have joked around with the mother, and in dreams they will face things like you wrote about, and not understanding why the mother would be saying that kind of thing to you. Hopifully it will get better for you really soon, and they may happen once in a while, but not like every night.
So I would not worry to much about it. Maybe let your girl know that you have had these weird dreams, and you just can not figure out why. Also i would not tell her that you think her mother looks better then she does. You know deep down you could actually find her mother attractive.
2007-06-14 00:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ah! you need to tell her this. only leave out the part that she is better looking and probably the last part. : ( perhaps you should think about trying a new relationship (not with the mother-in-law!) If this keeps happening, it may keep on doing that if you get engaged or even married. it woukdn't be so nice for that to stay. i hope things work out. going to a relationship physcologist may help. the problem may be more deep than you think. good luck.
2007-06-14 00:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by * 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams always represent the opposite of what we are really feeling. If you see your girlfriends mothers face it means nothing, just that you must love your girlfriends a lot to dream of her family.
Dont pay them too much attention.
2007-06-14 02:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by rafena 1979 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might just try ignoring the dreams, and realize they can't hurt you. Treat them as harmless fantasies and don't let them affect your decisions. It is something we all need to learn.
2007-06-14 00:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We all dream . are you thinking about her a lot this may be the reason. Try to think positive....Change your thinking change your life.... Dr. Norman Vincent Peal:::::
2007-06-14 03:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Grand pa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're on the job you must replace those thoughts with something more appropriate. Let's say, my ars#e for instance.
2007-06-14 00:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jane G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh I've had that little inconvenience. Didn't really bother me then.
2007-06-14 00:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im seriously at a loss with this.
2007-06-14 00:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you have a young peacock
2007-06-14 00:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋