hi;i am a 18 years old girl;i am tired of everything.my only hope is to be accepted in university and become a chemist.you know;i think i am somewhat wierd because nobody tends to like me;i mean i am not interesting for anyone.even my mother syas me that why i am like this. well;i am not so into humor ; i am kinda serious;i look good and boys when see me for the first time ;i am attractive for them also in school my girl freinds in the first days like me but then live me alone.i wanna know whats wrong with me?am i mad?you know i like riding bicycle ;swimming and spending time in internet.i study well;i try to be good.but its really hard for me to be so close to someone;and i really cant show that i like them;i am alittle shy;even near my mother i am shy.i am worried because now as a highschool student i dont have much problems about this problem but i am afraid if i have such problems in future;also i am sure that nobody likes a person like me that just enjoys studying .thanks!
2007-06-13 23:55:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You certainly are wrong, when you say no one loves you! Every one has that feeling some time or other in life, it is not unusual: you will soon get over that feeling yourself, and, if you correct your rude attitude twards yourself, make an effort to make friends with you sincerely, and accept yourself as a good friend, you will be helping yourself a lot towards that transformation, which will come any way, i assure you! i like you very much, for example, just for the way you have expressed yourself here: i read some thing into your personality, and i am very sure that i won't leave you alone, after a short time, because i like you as a friend with some stability! There is nothing wrong with you! Continue to study well, go for swimming and cycling, and enjoy your activities, keep fit and healthy, stay fit and healthy: read books, listen to good music, learn music if possible, write poetry, talk to friends...... you are good, you have no problem, nothing wrong with you, you are certainly going to do very well in life!
2007-06-14 00:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry! these are just your mid colledge years! and it is very normal to be shy when first getting to no someone! If u are afraid someone doesn't think u like them, tell them you enjoyed yourself and look forward to seeing them again.
And i think you show great responsiblity studying and taking your school seriously, you want to get into colledge and that is what matters. Just be yourself when getting to know someone, and people will like you for who you are, and I believe anyone with any sense will understand why you care about learning and doing well in school.
The best of luck!
2007-06-14 04:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to love yourself,be confident off who you are ,do the thing you like to enjoy yourself & to make yourself happy and to be around people like yourself.
try making a list off things you want to change and thing you want to leaveand step by step improve on yourself .
IMPORTANT: - notice what you have just said is just what every teenage girl goes through ,trust me i was once a 18 years old girl.
2007-06-14 01:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fine. Everyone is different and that's ok! I used to have problems with being too shy too, but now that has changed for me! So I hope that will change for you too!
2007-06-14 00:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're still young. You'll gain more self confidence. You're good looking and you sound intelligent.
You're not mad. I used to get all those ideas too....
2007-06-14 00:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by Smutty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because posting a question does not require a very long
autobiography.
2007-06-14 00:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
first learn to love yourself.Then only will others love you.
2007-06-13 23:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋