For once, just one time, I would like to be approched by an adoreable, healthy, athlete girl. Instead, I seem to be a magnet for unattractive girls to come to. Why?!
2007-06-13 22:18:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
LMAO at the people who said that I may be ugly. I'm no Brad Pitt, but then again, I know I'm no Screech either.
2007-06-13 22:26:16 · update #1
Lilaki, I do, but whenever a girl does approach me, they are heinous!
2007-06-13 22:43:16 · update #2
As many have suggegested, I am a nice guy, really nice atually, and I respect women a lot. (I have three sisters and my Mom.) I guess it's my fault because I treat every girl the same, whether she is gorgeous or unattractive, so maybe I'm sending mixed signals to them.
2007-06-13 22:49:29 · update #3
Don't sweat it I have the same problem with guys. You are probably just a nice guy and although they know they could never date you it makes them feel really good to be your friend. Cute, adorable girls don't approach any guy, so don't hold your breath you will have to do the work there if you want to meet one!!! LOL!
P.S. I think the real deal with you isn't that you are so much bothered by ugly-overweight girls is it? You are more bothered by NOT being approched by an adoreable, healthy, athlete girl. That's what's bothering you.... You are taking it way to personally, questioning your attractiveness and feeling rejected when you haven't even put yourself out there to approach those girls first to see the outcome. Go for it!
2007-06-13 22:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by brunettenxtdoor 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok, let me start by saying that overweight girls are not ugly. There are alot to see when u appreciate personalities and not only physique. And i think you have been doin the appreciating which is a reason why they come around you, but you have not really been doin the "seeing", which will do you good. The issue of undesired girls around you also has to do with maybe your being nice, which you should continue, only that you be disciplined abit urself so you dont give out wrong impressions. Anyway, you want girls that seem more attractive and desired, then you are gonna have to go get them like a tiger, and not wait to be found. Youre a man, right? Then there are things a mans got to do. Do it!
2007-06-13 23:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by sdot 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying "opposites attract". This may be the case. Maybe it is something in your personality that attracts these "not so eye-catching females"?
So...I think it is safe to say that a make-over will not solve your problems...
Approach these girls and ask them "what it is about me that you like so much?". Be straight-forward!
I'm sure none of them will hide your "magnetic trait" from you!
Try it...the truth will set you free.
2007-06-13 22:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Zarius 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all seriousness, I believe the reason many men are obsessed with gargantuan sized mammary glands has to do with a deep fixation instilled in the male psyche from a very young age since birth. Consider the following. 1.Breastfeeding as a child, the breast (technically the nipple) is a direct source of nourishment for the male infant, to the child a typical breast would seem enormous. Instilled upon the child are deep rooted memories of a large breast that provided sustenance. 2. When a young boy runs into his mothers open arms for a hug, or out of fear, the mother instinctual bends down to hug the boy, and the boy lays his head on his mothers chest. (the chest providing the boy refuge and shelter for whatever situation might arise). 3. So young boys fall asleep on their mothers bosom, (now the breasts provide the young boy with a warm soft place to sleep as well as shield them (mentally) from outside elements).... Ok so everything I just wrote just now I pulled out of my @$$, but who knows, I'm sure it's true for someone out there That is all.
2016-05-20 00:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try to approach such a girl, anyway, instead of letting "ugly/overweight" girls approach you? Don't just lay back and wait for the girl of your dreams to knock on your door!
2007-06-13 22:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by Lilaki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you stopped looking at the exterior of a girl and got to know her, you would find many more girls attractive.
Another explanation is that maybe ugly fat girls are more comfortable around you because they also find you ugly...
2007-06-13 22:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Maylee 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So whats to complain about, lots of people don't get any girls flocking to them. Perhaps they think that there is more about you than sensation seeking.
2007-06-14 00:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by Barbarian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a good listener and easy to talk to. They see you as non-judgemental and feel safe around you.
2007-06-13 22:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Blessed 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be quite shallow to be judging a girl by her looks alone.
2007-06-13 22:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi im healthy and i play basketball. and jog. and work out.
and ppl say im atractive..lol
do you have myspace?
find me...
if so
myspace.com/ k_to_the_iesha theres no space between the /andk tho
2007-06-13 22:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋