I'm a 19 year women and I'v been having homosexual dreams for months I'm just wondering if i continue to have homosexual dreams untill I'm 25 will i turn bi?
2007-06-13 20:49:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I hope i never stops having thoses dreams.
2007-06-13 20:57:22 · update #1
Welcome to the womens side! Woot woot lol jk I had homosexual dreams for awhile but it wasn't those dreams that "made" me gay. I like it better this way.
Only real way to find out is to try it.
2007-06-21 14:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by CrimeLab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As Freud put it, sometimes a cigar is just a good cigar. You may just be having fantasy dreams wondering what it would be like,that doesn't necessarily mean that you want to act on it. I've had those dreams on and off all my life and I'm straight. Can't say I haven't wondered what it would be like, but I've been in situations and just wasn't turned on by the other women I was with,Men were there too, it was quite awhile ago,in the times where anything went. So, in my own way, yes, I did try and give it a sort of go, but no, I was straight. Ok, I'm not the most straight person in the world, not in gay vs straight stance, but I'm liberal in the thoughts that if you have feelings about something, give it a try if you feel that's something that's an issue. Find out,don't leave yourself hanging and always wondering. Your parents would probably hate me, as I'm probably their age, but, I just hate to see people not knowing what they really want and going through life with such a big question over their head. Maybe you might want to wait until you are 25 like you said. Only you can know when is the right time to experiment. But don't drive yourself crazy with questions that can easily be answered.
2007-06-13 21:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by lochmessy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First I am confused what the age has to do with anything unless you are a male, then I can see why you would think dreaming about sex is significant in anyway. All males live in delusional world of fulfilling every woman's needs rather than learn how to fulfill just one special woman's needs. However assuming that you are not male I would dare say you are not bi but instead you have a male partner still in the dreaming stage, thus since he has not awaken yet, you must --and find a new partner at least one half awake and willing to fulfill your needs.
2007-06-21 14:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, maybe those dreams are a sign that you are bisexual. Maybe experiment with a close friend, or someone you know is bisexual. It will help you understand if you are or not. Thats what I did! But just because you have those dreams now at 19 doesn't mean you will continue to have them until your 25, and if you do, they won't turn you bisexual. If you are against being bisexual they don't follow who are might be. But if you are willing to find out, and be for sure of who you are or who you aren't, take my advice...
2007-06-21 15:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Chelsea J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that your already experiencing homosexual/bi tendacies, which is absolutely normal the dreams you have is a part of who you are. it's even possible you may be attracted to the same sex of someone you look up to, which neither means your gay or bi, it simply means that your attracted to the quality and the life of this person, then again it's very possible your curious and may want to experiment w/the same sex; also once again very normal. all this is normal in life irregardless of what age you are.......... you may stop having these dreams once you read what everyone has to say. i really wouldn't worry bout it, if your gonna be bi then your gonna be bi, plain and simple, don't hide who you are.
take care and good luck
2007-06-21 17:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by david m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what will happen. I have always felt the homosexual feeling and then I had a dream which encouraged me the come out. I am not sure how to answer this question.
2007-06-21 03:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are those who are truly homosexual or straight and know it, then there are those who have some feelings and dreams during some point but misinterpret them as signals that they are homosexual. They are confused. Then there are those who are confused so they just put themselves as bi. It's either heterosexual or homosexual, and these two are more true and real identities.
2007-06-13 22:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by naturalissexy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a weird way to think about sexuality. It isn't a binary thing for a lot of people, some people are all gay or all straight but most people are somewhere in between. If you're curious and attracted to someone who is interested try things out, take it slow and see how you feel. If you don't like it write it off as something freaky you did in college. If you like it then you still get to decide what it means, maybe it's just one girl that you like. Maybe it's one girl every five years. whether our sexuality is nature or nurture, it doesn't mean you have to hump everyone. I think being bisexual is normal, and most people are just up tight.
2007-06-13 21:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by lola d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are products of your subconscious mind. But what's with the age of 15? if you're a homo then it should be apparent now... don't put it in your head. Remember mind set. If you think it will happen then there's a possibility that i will. So stop worrying and start having fun. If you would turn out to be a homo then there's nothing wrong with it...
2007-06-21 15:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by happy_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not something that goes away if it is who u r then it will be who u become..if u are attracted to men and women and once u actually have a relationship with both man and a woman and feel the same intense feelings for them then u r bi..i can't really tell u how one becomes bi..because I know I can only love a woman and I mean heartfelt deep feeling love that ONLY a woman can make me feel but for a man I do care and they mean alot to me but it doesn't mean the same to me as a woman therefore I know I am a lesbian..you'll know in time what u fall into don't bother labeling who u r now just go with it in time u will know who u really are..
2007-06-13 21:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by Charmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mamita, listen to me you will not turn into anything unless you want to. You are at an age where you are filled with curiosity and that is normal. Dont let anyone tell you its not. They just hide it because they are scared of what people will think. Just because you have dreams and fantasize does not mean your gay. I am a lesbian who never slept with guys and I fantasize about them, so what? my fantasies are mine and they are just that. Now if you choose to have a sexual intimate relationship and you feel comfortable with women and men then yes, you are bi. You just have to see what it is you feel comfortable with then you can decide for sure.
2007-06-13 20:58:49 · answer #11 · answered by karayzeebutieful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋