Well here is the thing. I am a bit of an inside person, and dont really do sports or anything along those lines. I know that there good for you, but its just not me. I am into alot of reading and playing guitar. I have cut back on WoW alot, so thats no longer a problem. Anyways, here is my problem. As I sit at home, I never get anyone to call me, and I am ushally the one who tires to get someone to hang with. Its not ease when no one awners there phone. I feal like everyone is having a good time, and like no one wants to hang out with me. All my firends always gets phone calls and tex messages, from there friends to hang out with them. What should I do get pass this depreshion. I want to go out and hang out with them. Sometimes I feal like a loner. Any advice that you guys have would be great. Thanks
2007-06-13 19:28:17 · 10 answers · asked by theone0581 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to change you habits, get out there and mingle with friends and other people. It's ok to be a home body, but if your depress the last thing you want to do is to be alone. Im pretty sure once people realize all of your good qualities, they will want to hang with you. There is always counseling.
2007-06-13 19:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem from time to time. I don't think you're depressed, but I think maybe you feel discouraged and maybe a little sorry for yourself. Not trying to be harsh here, just my honest read of the situation.
You could try to hook up with a group that does things you enjoy together, maybe as volunteers, for instance. If you like biking, you could join a cycle club.
But these guys are your friends, right? Text THEM, ask them what's up... hey, you wanna go do this or that....you know, that kind of stuff. You don't mention your age or income, but maybe Yahoo Personals would be a way to connect with someone. But sitting at home won't fix anything, and I think you know that, right? So reach out and touch - there are people out there who might like hanging with you just fine. Best of luck to you.
2007-06-13 19:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bill F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depression is nothing to be ashamed about. People who develop this condition are usually those who lack serotonin and dopamine. Two important things you should do is see your physician, he can prescribe medication to help you. Remember, people who tell you to not use medication are ignorant. If you had high blood pressure, you would want a medication to control it. This is very similar. You have a condition and medication will help. The second thing is seek counseling. I was anti-counseling back in the day, but after I went to it, my life has really changed. Keep in mind, the world is not fair and unfortunately, you can't change it. Just do the best to help yourself and to help others.
2007-06-13 19:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Organise some outings with friends. Dinner, drinks, movies etc. It doesn't have to be things you don't like. But sometimes for friendship to work out, you gotta make compromises. If they wanna play soccer occasionally and you always reject their invitations, eventually they will give up and stop asking you out. So be a little flexible sometimes. Be more outgoing. Seriously, this is the only way to make more friends. =)
2007-06-13 19:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
...theres alot of people that don't like hangin out...sometimes it takes a little effort..so just start man...it'll grow in time...add experiences to ur day each day u can...try and put urself in a different state of mind by changing the words in ur head...positive thinking grows as well...it's like going 2 the gym...each day u practice it u get stronger...
...life is an adventure rich or poor...and the more u seek it the more personality u find...no one was more of a loner than me...I jus started reading,writing then I went to college and I met a whole lot of people along the way...Lifes great...u jus hav 2 find a little of it each day...AIGHT?
2007-06-13 19:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to like yourself. Are you alone because you don't like yourself? If you can't like yourself how can you expect others to like you? So begin by recognizing that you are great, wonderful, awesome, fantastic and super. You really are. Feel it and believe it. It will show. And others will recognize that you respect yourself...and they will then respect you. So trust, honor, accept and respect YOU. That's the first step. It is truly hard for some. I'm talking about genuinely accepting yourself, without judgment.
2007-06-13 19:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you spelling like that on purpose?
anyway. that's how the world is, they always
want you to be the one to call, trust me it's
always like that. just do what makes you
happy. i like being inside too but at school
i talk to everyone. it just depends on you,
if you like being inside, go ahead and enjoy
it... and WoW and playing guitar is cool.
the world isn't going to give you anything
except a good time, drugs, and betrayal.
2007-06-13 19:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just like you, but i then abandoned my shyness and looked at myself more positively. Have more confidence in urself buddy, and spend more time outside. U can start with joining clubs.
2007-06-13 19:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by Acheron 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
consume chocolate.!!! commence taking Omega 3 (over-the-counter) It helps with circulate..hence with melancholy and problems..this is completely actual! attempt getting another supplements and so on. into you too.
2016-10-07 11:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by lieser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn emo and then everybody will wanna hang out with you
but then you wont hang out with them but whit your other emo friends :D
2007-06-13 19:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋