Most are Asian connection sites. He has even displayed "looking for MARRIAGE !" This disgusts me, so I confronted him in regards to the situation and he said it was for his brother.(but with my husband's photos on display???) What should I do?
2007-06-13 17:53:54 · 29 answers · asked by yvetta2203 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
...and I am truly pissed at this moment!
2007-06-13 17:54:32 · update #1
Ha ! You gals are SO right!!!
2007-06-13 18:00:54 · update #2
I'm just biding my time : ( ( He is a lying freak, no doubt !)
2007-06-13 18:01:50 · update #3
And to top it ALL off, I'm supporting him !! (and no I'm not an ugly girl)
2007-06-13 18:04:43 · update #4
All of you guys are right; not to mention he's drunk 99% of the time doesn't help matters.
2007-06-13 18:08:45 · update #5
Hey hey Thanks Troy T : )
2007-06-13 18:12:33 · update #6
I have to give you all a thumbs up for answers : )
2007-06-13 18:17:04 · update #7
UGHHH I'm so livid at the freak...I'm locking the bedroom door before he comes home later
2007-06-13 18:19:04 · update #8
The PC is mine anyhow...he has NOTHING!
2007-06-13 18:34:39 · update #9
Like, I wish I could find a 'real' man !
2007-06-13 18:35:36 · update #10
Pretend it's a friend thats telling you this and do whatever you would advise her to do.
Seriously, this is bad. It's proof that if he hasn't cheated yet, it's not for lack of trying.
2007-06-13 17:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
oooooh.....this pisses me off so bad, i started getting flashbacks. do not believe him!!!!!
he is so much of a lying, cheating asshole that he doesnt even deserve to lick your toilet bowl after a drunken all night party.
never ever ignore your gut feeling. i have twins and a life long std( HPV, thank god not HIV) because of the liar i was with, and was also footing the bill, i have been away from him since march and i am getting stronger every day. you hurt real bad at first, you will even slip up and start to question your decision, but he will keep showing his true colors to you in between begging for you back. look for the signs, they will become more and more clear as the days go by. stay strong and start taking care of you!!! go out and buy yourself something nice, spend a day in a spa and get special attention. YOU deserve it, not him.
kick his *** out.
2007-06-14 15:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by lisa k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi: He is lying to you. He says it is for his brother, yeah right. I am a male and I know he is doing wrong. Tell him to get that shi* off those sites. Why is he doing this? Tell him if he is looking for marriage he can get on. Tell him that if you guys divorce you will get half (50%) of everything you own. And you will probably will get the house. And by what I have saw in you picture you have no problems finding someone else.
2007-06-13 18:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
He's lying, plain and simple.
I'd leave immediately. He's not even man enough to admit it, much less work out his unfulfilled desires with you...he just went right out looking for some on the side. Isn't it obvious?
It's probably just the horror of the truth that has you doubting yourself, and you're not wrong. Men caught cheating will always try to get you to believe some dumb story like that one.
2007-06-13 18:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a lame excuse for cheating, but maybe you should ask his brother if this is true. I certainly wouldn't take his answer as the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Confort the matter and if its true then it time for some serious counseling.
I truly wish you the best......
2007-06-13 19:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by nicknacpattymac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As every one else here has said - leave the bum and find someone who will treat you with the respect and decency that you so rightly deserve !
Let him stay on those web sites - I'd start one of my own and mention you're looking for a soul mate with possibility of future committment !! Then let him find it, and if he asks who is it for - tell him it's not yours, it's for your SISTER (whether you have one or not) and then see who's fooling who !!
Get away from the creep - sounds like he deserves all that's coming his way.....good luck !!(And start looking for the best, most expensive divorce lawyer ASAP !!)
2007-06-13 18:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, I wish there was a gentle way to say this but....listen to you gut. If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and talks like a duck-its a duck. I know you want to give him excuses or believe the ones that he's giving you, but you owe it to yourself to be true to yourself. It's obvious that he's not. You don't advertise yourself as single unless you are looking for someone. And any GOOD man would tell his brother to go to hell before jeapordizing his own marriage to help him out. Not that I believe for a second that he actually did it for his brother. You deserve better.
2007-06-13 18:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by Amber 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
and I can't say I blame ya ..... you have a right to be po'd..... you need to set the record straight with him..... sorry, if this offends anyone else who reads this, but, this is a marriage here and is NOT a game...... sit this man down and let it all out..... tell him why it is wrong and just how you feel about it all....... his pic..... his name...... his site....... his responsibility to take the consequences for HIS actions..... ask him to PROVE to you this is for his *brother*...... sit down with him at the pc and go thru the sites with him, ask him to point out what is on there about the brother....... the state simply and strongly that you will not tolerate this deception or breach of marital promise and watch while he deletes ALL the sites, and make sure he understands that you will be checking and that the trust has been broken and that you will expect him to earn it back.......... IF you want to trust him again that is....... God bless
2007-06-13 18:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared for more lies from your husband. When they are caught, they come up with the dumbest lies! Listen to your gut instincts and the facts in front of you WAY before you believe what your husband tells you.
I'm sorry you are in this situation. Decide what is best for you. Do you want to be married to a man telling others he is single? Best of luck to you.
Wait a minute...you're supporting him??? You are definitely better off without him.
2007-06-13 18:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by MNature 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Pretend to be someone else. Try to start a 'relationship' with him. See if he will meet you somewhere. Won't he be in the shock of his life when he sees it's you. Make sure it is somewhere that he normally won't go on his own. Invite him out to lunch @ a nice dinner. I am so sorry to hear about what your husband is doing. Don't ask his brother, because more than likely, he will cover for your hubby.
2007-06-13 18:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I wouldn't buy his lame explanation. If it was for his brother, it would have his brother's photos, not his. He's lying. You have every reason to be really angry at him. Tell him he takes it off or he's out the door. And I'd keep a close eye on him from now on, he has cheating in his plans, and he isn't likely to write them off any time soon.
2007-06-13 18:00:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋