I went out with this guy named James Stocking and at first we were really good friends but when we decided to go used me. Yet i kept going out with him and after the sixth time I broke up with him because he kept doing it. I've tried everything to forget him but i cant. I need help please!!!!
2007-06-13 16:22:53 · 10 answers · asked by ROXY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i just got out the the same type of relationship. i'd been with the guy for more than a year and i kept breaking up with him and getting back together. the only way to really forgot him is to stop talking to him.no form of contact whatsoever.dont see him, dont txt him or email him.find something to keep you busy, like a hobby or a job. then when your ready start dating other guys. but mainly dont talk to him in anyway. that will only give him the oppurtunity to put his foot in the door again.good luck!! its hard but you can do it
2007-06-13 16:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lolo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that works is to pray to God to give you strength to stay away from that boy. When you start thinking about him, pray instead. ask God for strength and to help you find other ways to use your time a bit more constructively.
It also sounds like you may have some low self esteem. this is the time to work on yourself and make improvements. Focus on becoming the very best yu can be. that's more important for you right now. Ask God to help show you what you need to work on.
I wouldn't consider that he actually was a "boyfriend". It sounds like just a fling. Don't make it something it wasn't. Let it go and think of it as a "growing experience". This was not a true relationship. You're fooling yourself if you label it as one.
2007-06-13 16:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends at your age are like shopping at the mall--you look, you try them on for size, you might buy one, and wear it, but you don't have to HAVE it forEVER!!!!
Try out lots of them, don't have intercourse with any of them--they miay be infected, make them respect you, and make them EARN your respect.
Once you are married, then you will be stuck with that one til,.--whenever maybe forever...but have fun shopping AROUND!
That is the joys of being young, honey! And keep in mind the NAME of the guy...did you really want to be Roxy Stocking?
I don't think so!
2007-06-13 16:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay..if your trying to get over him STOP thinking about him..posting a question just brings up the some of the good memories u guys shared...ne ways if u went back to him six times and he was still doing the same stuff...u should of know u where to good for him and moved on..but the best advice i can give is to just STOP thinking about him and move on...the best way of doing that is to think of all the NEGATIVE stuff he did to u....and wall la..you;ll forget...
2007-06-13 16:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda : 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seems such as you have been listening to "3 Days Grace- returned and returned" and that i'm sorry approximately you and your ex boyfriend. once you pass returned to college, attempt to pass on and finally end up a clean boyfriend.
2016-10-09 04:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of men out there. Just keep yourself busy . try to think of other things instead of him.
2007-06-13 16:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by mared 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to one of your friends then im sure youll lead into another convo.
2007-06-13 16:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by chrissyprissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do stuff that make s you feel powerful strong and independant
2007-06-13 16:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Lena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a NEW one!
2007-06-13 16:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
look for another good guy..........
2007-06-13 16:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by iceman 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋