ok so ive been hanging out with this friend for a while but i acually have feelings for her but i think her parents hate me cuz i always stay at her house late. so its a bad thing if i go out with her and her parents hate me so what do i do?
2007-06-13 16:19:59 · 25 answers · asked by Jon L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't stay at her house late. Start showing that you're responsible and mature.
2007-06-13 16:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The parents are not stupid. They can pick up on the vibes, that you like this girl more then friends. They can also sense, that you are hiding something. Most parents have a good radar. Why? They have been there themselves. I think you should respect their rules and not stay so late at her house. Your winning no points with them by staying so late. Be polite with the parents and the friend. Respect house rules. Don't stay so late.
2007-06-13 23:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if the girl still lives at home with her parents, don't stay at the house after hours. Have respect for the parents and their house and when around them, be respectful and have nice appearance. Show them that you are a good person and will respect and take care of their daughter. Just don't ware your welcome out and when taking her out, bring her home at a decent hour. The key is respect.
2007-06-13 23:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lavette W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask the girl if her parents do hate u...second try leaving early..and offering to help with maybe taking out the garabage..or setting the table..so korny stuff like that..cuz once u show her parents that u are responsible u wouldnt be so worried about dating there daughter..and once u gain there trust maybe u guys can start hanging out somewhere more romantic kinda...just a thought....
2007-06-13 23:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If where you are visiting her is her parents' home, then you should respect the home and leave at a reasonable hour. Also, try saying hello and strike a conversation with her parents, if you act anti-social towards them you will never be liked. Good Luck!
2007-06-13 23:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that shouldnt stand in ur way. but it is always good to be able to get along w/ the parents. jus show them that you really care about their daughter and try to open up to them and talk to them a little bit
2007-06-13 23:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be polite to them. show them that youre interested in more than just their daughter (whether its friendly or more). ask them about themsevles, address them as mr. or mrs. a little extra respect goes a long way with adults. once you earn their respect and show that you treat their daughter with respect, then feel free to see if shes interested in a relationship. it will go alot smoother if her parents arent opposed to it. chances are they dont hate you, they are just protective.
2007-06-13 23:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they hate you. hate is a very strong word. if they absolutely didn't want you around, i think yu would know it by now. nevertheless, I would say just treat everyone with respect- the way you want to be treated. put yourself in their shoes and act accordingly.
2007-06-13 23:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her gifts for special occasion to show that you care.
Ask for a little one on one time. Be like a friend to her. What I did was ask for advise and she grew fond of me.
2007-06-13 23:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by sameperson247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really you have to be yourself. But I'm sure her parents will appreciate your being polite and courteous. Don't wear out your welcome by staying too late. Just try to be honest and put yourself into their place and try to live by their rules and respect them.
2007-06-13 23:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by conni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋