50 years old lady. my husband pushes me out of the house after my tries to hit me. my 15 year old son tries to rescue and my husband pushes him out with me. in this case what is best recommended. i also cant call 9-11 because i am only a visitor to america from canada. so please give ous sugestions. thanks in advance for the great help
2007-06-13 16:09:25 · 20 answers · asked by biologyaj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Put up with it or leave him. There are your choices.
2007-06-13 16:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Why would calling 911 be out of the question whether you're a citizen or not? Is your husband also a visitor from Canada? If so, reporting him might be the best thing to do. I've never heard that before! If he's not Canadian but you're married there's no reason to not call someone - 911 or someone else.
You need to GET OUT one way of the other and he needs some help. There's no reason to put yourself and your son through this this kind of behavior. You and he deserve better! Get out!
2007-06-13 23:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by MissWong 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you are only a visitor to this country, you are still entitled to the rights to protection that the rest of us are. I would suggest contacting the authority to remove him from the residence until he has had time to cool down and you decide if you want him back or not. Considering there is a minor involved, and he has been abusive to him as well, they will have no problem escorting him away from the home. You will also have the option of filing for a restraining order if you are fearful that he may attempt to hurt you or your son again. If this is a one time event, you can keep him away from you until you feel safe letting him back into the home.
Don't let the fact that you're not a US citizen keep you from using what is available to you by right as a HUMAN BEING.
2007-06-13 23:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by simplykrystie333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you can always call 9-1-1 no matter where you are from. The same rules apply in Canada as they do here ( well some) if you are being abused call the police.
If you really think they won't help hop on the next thig smoking to a Canadian Province....Alberta, Nova Scotia, New Foundland
2007-06-13 23:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mz.Thyck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your husband American? If he is than so are you. You need to catch him gone and leave.You shouldn't put yourself in that situation nor your son.Someone is going to get seriously hurt and it will probably be your boy, he didn't ask for all of this. You are the mom ,the protector ,he is the son the one that you should be protecting.If you decide to leave go far away and don't go back. If things get too bad you might have to call 911. Take care of you and your son and get away from the husband as soon as possible.
2007-06-13 23:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by boo76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even visitors to America are allowed to use 911. It is for emergency help, and that sounds like what you need. They will help you get to a shelter to live until you can find the help you need. Never hesitate to call 911 when you need emergency help. You can also contact your Human Services Department and explain your situation and they can tell you who you need to talk to. In this country, a woman never has to take being abused by any man, not even her husband. Good luck to you.
2007-06-13 23:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by cactus bloom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a male and I never harmed or pushed my wife and i owned everything, we just had a bad argument and I ended up out on the street, so you have an advantage if you play the victim and press charges. But I'm glad to see a man prevent himself from getting everything he's earned taken away from him. move on and find another sugar-daddy. your son will be with you until you are safe and secure, but he will still love and respect his father! I unfortunately have a son that pity's me, because I was taken for everything! it's not a good example for his view about women and relationship. at least your son will not disown you for being ruthless like my son does his mother!
2007-06-13 23:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can call 911 if there is abuse. If you are here illegally that is a separate matter. You can file for citizenship if you want and you don't need a man to help you stay here. Think about your son and how you are teaching him that disrespecting women can sometimes be OK!
The Canadian Embassy can help you too. Contact them for your legal rights.
2007-06-13 23:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by mrscmmckim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immigrants have rights also. You can call the police. You won't be deported if you do. You have to think about your and your sons safety. If you still feel you can't call the police go to a shelter where they can give you assistance and contact information for people willing to help.
2007-06-13 23:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by Dungeon Master 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can call 911 even if you are a vistor! You can also look online and find you a shelter to go to! They wont ask alot of questions. You dont have to live with the abuse!
2007-06-13 23:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and leave when you get a chance there are places that you can go, the police will help you its not worth it to stay with this man he's no good for you, trust me help will come just get out fast as you can. Love do not hurt and he thinks that he got you where he wants you, show him wrong leave.
2007-06-13 23:18:07 · answer #11 · answered by show all 32's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋