What did I do wrong?

Question

I work at my college's library and there is this girl that melts my heart like a lava.
One time, when she was leaving, I approached her by offering her a pencil and saying "Excuse me! you left your pencil at the library" just so I can talk to her. She grinned and was shocked of course. After asking where she is from and where she works, I finally asked for her phone number and she openly gave it to me. After She said good bye, her words left exciting, yet overwhelming traces in my mind.
However, when I went home, I tried calling the number and it was an unworking number. I also tried different numbers in case she had given me the wrong number by mistake. But no,she had given me a false number on purpose.
Eversince I have a disgusting feeling about myself. An excessive low confidence.

What did I do wrong?

Answer 1

Dudddeee. Go a little slower next time=] Just because you see an awesome girl that totally melts your heart doesn't mean you have to pounce on her first glance. It freaks most girls out. Like, if you had just come up to me and asked for my number and everything I would have given you the Reject number=] It's just who girls are. We (I) like hard to get guys. Just go a little slower next time. And come on. Shes just one chick. Don't beat yourself up over this, trial and error=]]

Answer 2

You did nothing wrong. She just wasn't into you, but that sure was rude to give a wrong number. What's even worse is she probably didn't think also that the number belonged to someone else that would have the same feelings like you. I had this guy call my home forever asking for a Sandra. I finally one day told him, look, Sandra gave you the wrong number. I am so sorry she isn't into you, but I am not Sandra, I don't know a Sandra, and Sandra doesn't deserve you if she gave you a wrong number. I really felt badly for this guy, but you know, I wouldn't care to go out with a guy who ever did that to me. That's lowlife.

Answer 3

personally, i dont think you did anything wrong- maybe she did give you the wrong number by mistake, but if she did, then i wouldnt talk to her about it, you should wait until she comes to you. If she gave you the wrong number on purpose, then shes not worth your time, you're too good for people like her. Besides, if she did give you the wrong number on purpose, just think of it as her doing you a favor, you now know what type of person she is and now you dont have to deal with girly drama =oP

Answer 4

It may not be you at all! Maybe its just her. Some people just feel embaressed, or dont know how to handle someone coming on to them like that and it is just easier to give the wrong phone number than to be faced with not knowing what to do next. Maybe she just got out of a bad relationship, or it could be a hundred of other reasons, dont be so hard on yourself!

Answer 5

I think you came on a little too strong. Don't feel bad about it, though. Everybody makes those sorts of mistakes. She didn't even know you, and she probably shouldn't have made assumptions about you. I suggest you let her pass. Anyway, next time, get to know her before you ask for any of her info. I'm not surprised that someone would feel uncomforatable giving their phone number to a practical stranger.

Answer 6

First of all you do not ever start a conversation with something like you left something and I am returning it to you. Second before you ask for her Phone# ask do you want some coffee and if so take her to a great place with very good coffee that does not break your wallet or if it does you sood get a Job before you ask any one for there Phone#.

Answer 7

Probably better for someone like you to stay away from women. Your inferiority complex will always keep you from developing a meaningful relationships. You will aways be taken advantage of and treated badly. Its just your lot in life. Too bad to, because you could probably have a rich and rewarding life if you'd quit feeling sorry for yourself.

Answer 8

I am sorry that happened. I don't know why some women think they can be unkind to guys who stick their neck out there and try to meet them. You didn't do anything wrong...it;s not you...she just didn't handle it well.

You know, she could have a b/f and not have wanted to tell you...OR she could have not paid her phone bill...or she could just be a sociopath...

No matter what it's all her, not you and she should be totally embarrassed next time she sees you...and YOU have nothing to be ashamed of.

Answer 9

oh come on! don't be under after fail once... maybe te girl thinks ur a stranger. (it happens lately...) but it wont be the cause u to go on giving up on someone u love! I'm also loving a guy who almost 2 years but he never give a single look on me at all! 2 YEARS but i never give up and lately he start to talk to me. Don't give up man! just go on! thing positively!

Answer 10

You did nothing wrong. She just was not interested, that is all. Now instead of obsessing over this girl, get out there and find someone else!