2007-06-13 14:37:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Say it. If that person loves you, he will accept you just as you are. My cousin told everyone in the family and we all love him the same. His friends are straight and they love him and respect him, too. Go ahead!!!
2007-06-13 14:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by nenena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saying the words "I am gay" usually works. Is it necessary to tell them? If it is then say it. The worst part about coming out is telling someone for the first time. Once you've done that and found there is no problem, it becomes much easier. Friends and family should accept you for who you are and your sexuality should make no difference. If it does make a difference then reassess your relationship with the supposed friend.
2007-06-13 14:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by tentofield 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, someone....I'm gay! :)
seriously, the first time is extremely stressful and scary. But, i will say, in my experience, my worry and stress over it going horrible, never happened. Afterwards I was always like, "gee, what was I so stressed out about??"
My advice, find one or two people you really trust, parent, sibling, friend, parent of friend,.....anyone you really trust and just feel good about, and just tell them. It usually goes much better than you think it will.
Yes, it may be a bit awkward for a little while as they adjust to knowing you are gay, and you adjusting to them knowing, but, it's so worth. You will feel like the weight of the world has been lifted from your shoulders.
good luck
2007-06-13 14:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son one day just came out and told me, I love him and even though I didn't really understand all the feelings I would eventually have to go through to except it, I knew I loved my son and somehow it would all be good. I don't know when he felt he could tell me, but you will, just know that you are who you are and be proud of yourself, some people never figure that out. Good Luck,
Marda
2007-06-13 15:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by marda j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on who you are telling it to..You don't have to tell everyone you are Gay like your co-workers or neighbors and people like that and if it's your friends then Just tell them I think I'm gay and they will understand...
2007-06-13 14:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♡♪♫☆Baby Animal♥♡♪♫☆ღ»-(¯`v´¯)-» 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you've just gotta do it fast. or maybe write a note to ur friend that is right nxt 2 u and then get it back so that you make sure that nobody that you don't want to know sees it
2007-06-13 14:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be open an honest.Tell the person you being gay is what makes you happy.Good Luck
2007-06-13 14:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by ....... 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hopefully it is someone you know, then you can take them aside and tell them you have something to tell them. There is no reason to tell them unless you feel they are ready to know and can handle it.
2007-06-13 16:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just tell that someone. no need to be beating around the bush, you'd end up telling that person anyway, so why waste that person's time, go straight to the point.
2007-06-13 14:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by Ťango 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go all out with the dress and make-up and the transexual
surgery.
2007-06-13 14:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋