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I just read this question from a woman who cheated on her husband cause she THINKS he cheated on her. She didn't ask if what she did was wrong, just if we thought he had cheated too!
Marraige is supposed to be about being loving, faithful, commited, loyal. Your supposed to stick my your wife/husband through thick and thin and give them your support. No one is perfect, we all have flaws, but we are supposed to love our spouse and trust them no matter what. Marriage is about growing together in God, making eachother happy, and building something together that glorifies God! At least that is what I think and would want from a woman I married.
Sorry, that question just upset me.

2007-06-13 14:04:08 · 11 answers · asked by Knight-of-God 3 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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I can understand it upsetting you...It isn't right. I have a friend who's wife cheated on him and the Lord had put them together (and it was a very obvious God thing) and she willingly decided to turn her back on God's gift and go after what she wanted. ....a younger better looking man. For her it was because she lost sight of God's will and His plan and decided to follow her own way and it got her into a rough spot.

2007-06-13 18:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jan P 6 · 0 0

People today don't take marriage seriously.
Needs to be a commitment.
Pray and seek God about a mate and make sure (as much as possible) that she is a christian and will agree to "sticking it out" and never want an easy divorce.

2007-06-14 03:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by robert p 7 · 0 0

I am with you 110% we get married for a commitment, because we love each other...not to break the vow of marrage and cheat on our husband or wife.

2007-06-13 21:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by princess_kimnus 2 · 0 0

I totally with you, my hub cheated on me before we got married but I have never and wont ever cheat on him. I love him too much to put he through that pain.

Everyone is avenged by God for their wrongs. It is the devil in you that makes you think of revenge.

2007-06-13 21:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by corrick_1 6 · 0 0

Some people just like to get revnege. Maybe they both are unhappy in the relationship, but still that is no need to cheat.

2007-06-13 21:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by Like woahhh!!! (: 3 · 0 0

I know it does upset me too. I really don't know why people would just do that. They probably don't even love their spouses or are just immature and rush into things without knowing. The thing that person did was just terribly wrong and I agree with you, I don't know why they would do it. But that type of people just don't take things seriously and are just immature about things. Hope that answers your question. Thanks for the comment.

2007-06-13 21:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by Foryou42 3 · 0 1

1st of all, marriage is a crock and doesn't guarantee anything. People grow and change, fall into and out of love/lust. The chick got horny and wanted a strange piece of tail. Being married doesn't change a persons mentality or make them loyal to anyone. Remember that and you'll never be disappointed.

2007-06-13 21:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 3

IF ANYONE DECIDES TO GET MARRIED IT IS BECAUSE THEY FOUND THE LOVE OF THEIR LIFE AND THEY ARE CONTENT WITH THEIR OTHER HALF. IF A MARRIED PERSON DECIDES TO FOOL AROUND WITH SOMEONE ELSE THEN THEY DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT IN LIFE AND DO NOT REALIZE WHAT THEY ARE THROWING AWAY. MARRIAGE IS SCARED NOT A GAME.

2007-06-13 21:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by CONFUSED 3 · 0 0

SOUNDS TO ME SHES A TW11AT YOU DONT JUST ASSUME HE DID IT AND THEN DO IT YOURSELF. MARRAGE IS ABOUT LOVE YOUR RIGHT BUT PEOPLE IN THIS DAY AND AGE HAVE LOST IT SADLY. NOW ITS JUST ABOUT THE NEXT ONE NIGHT STAND DISGUSTING REALLY. NOT THE LIFE IM LIVING THANK YOU

2007-06-13 21:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Everyone make mistakes but untill you experience this then don't judge no one God will forgive her if she/he talk with him.

2007-06-13 21:09:58 · answer #10 · answered by Lady J 2 · 0 0

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