2007-06-13 13:50:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ummm......having sex with me instead of being with that person?
I don't get it.
2007-06-13 13:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they decided they dont want to commit to a relationship with you, so they want to have sex just to get something out of it.
on the other hand. some men see sex as just a part of being with a girl. they see nothing wrong with it, have no inhibitions like women do.
if the wanting sex gets in the way of getting to know someone then, its an unbalanced relationship, and you should tell him how you feel first. if he doesnt try to work it out with you, then either use him the way hes using you (might as well get it while you can) or just move on.
2007-06-13 20:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by juanita m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, there are girls who are the same way....just looking for sex. Not all guys are like that thankfully. If he actually cares about you, then he won't just want sex from you. If a guy just wants sex from you, then you need to pass on him because he does not care one iota about you and he does not really like you and you will never have a relationship with him. He is using you.
2007-06-13 20:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys do, just the ones YOU pick. Try NOT having sex unless they marry you first. Maybe then they may stay with you a while.
2007-06-13 20:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read someplace that it might be best to have the sex first and then enjoy the rest of the date.
2007-06-13 21:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer A: You might want to review where you are going to meet guys. If you're meeting people in places that are not "hook up" focused you'll have a better/easier time at meeting guys who don't have "hook up" in their agenda.
Answer B: Many guys are giant hornballs.. (not all)
2007-06-13 21:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by FTM D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be worse, it's better than being with a guy that won't have sex with you.
2007-06-13 20:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Metro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guy,s are like that they just don,t think about looking in her eye,s and just being with her should satisfy guy,s. that,s like the old saying nice guy,s finish last. hope this help,s you a little
2007-06-13 21:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by brian g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we need to have Congo Sex.
2007-06-13 20:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Not all guys are like that. I'm not. Only some guys are.
2007-06-13 20:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋