Do you agree or disagree?
2007-06-13 11:34:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
agreed. but it teaches you lessons too that you can pass on to your kids/grandkids so they dont get the same 'scars'.
2007-06-13 11:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by xcupcaitx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1 have you reported any of the abuses? My guess would be NO which is not good, cause you have no proof, but if you have then you should file a restraining order on him and make sure he can't hurt you. #2 Do you have any children together? If you answer YES then that is who you need to think about, if children grow up seeing their mommy getting hit then the tend to sway towards that lifestyle as an adult. I'm in criminal justice. It is called the trait theory. #3 Do you still love the guy? If that answer is yes then leave and insist that he see a counselor and don't come back untill he and you have had an appointment together and you feel safe to return home. There are plenty of shelters and homes for abused women, I know first hand. And they really aren't that bad. #4 LOVE yourself enough above all else and know that you do not deserve this treatment. I used to think it wa my fault till one day I woke up and I was getting choked because the truck payment came out of the bank and he thought I took the money. After that I did and I left. #5You are not alone in this you have to take up for yourself and by that I mean get away from this guy, he will hit you again, they don't just stop. You may have to be sneaky, but start saving money and get you a place to stay with security. #6 Stay strong and you will prevail, please don't ever think that you have nothing to live for because you have a purpose, one that you most likely have not ful-filled make sure you know you are important.
2016-04-01 06:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you allow it to do that to you. I have been physically, mentally and emotionally scarred and I lived through it. It's in the past and I learned from it. You cant even see the scars.
2007-06-13 11:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by techtwosue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree 100% as of right now the only thing left to scar is the physical for me
2007-06-13 11:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by New York Chic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree - there is no way to escape without at least a few scars.
2007-06-13 11:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by The Trooper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agreed, but we learn from these experiences and they help shape what we become. Hopefully, in my old age, I will have to look back and laugh at all the self-centered ideas that ruled me in the past.
2007-06-13 11:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by Clear as a Bell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree but it sometimes can be so rewarding and that is what should be remembered, the scars may heal faster.
2007-06-13 13:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by Dave aka Spider Monkey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally Agree!!! I am tremendously scarred from life right now!!!!
2007-06-13 11:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Kraziegurl79 ist ein Rock Star 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I won't and can't argue with that. Just because a person has learned to overcome those scars, doesn't mean they're not there.
2007-06-13 12:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by Breezey is saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but we must grow from this and start a new direction and be a happy camper as that is what life is all about ,,,So good Luck.
2007-06-13 11:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋