how can i meet the wright people to make make me laugh and heal me from this hurt
2007-06-13 11:06:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
yes it can be a waste of time and energy with the wrong kind of people.
Judge people by their true thoughts, the true meaning of their spoken words and their deeds, then choose the right people who will bring peace & happiness to you easily said.
We misjudge people by what we want to hear, see and feel and that ends us with people who are selfish, rude and downright parasites.
In hindu philosophy your good karmas will do you good but if you socialize with the right kind of people "Satsang" you will get equal good. Just like in christian church going people... are considered good because it does do good.
EnJoy
2007-06-13 13:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by vinod s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all well done you for realising certain people can deliver hurt. That was your first step - recognition. So now you can turn your lifestyle around and become stronger from your experience and perhaps not give out to the wrong people that you are meant to have met and yet not opened up so much to. Good Luck you are now at the beginning of a new phase of your character take it forward without resentment.
2007-06-13 20:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by deep in thought 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in case you look into why you ended up with the incorrect human beings interior the previous then you definately ought to discover the reason behind that. till the time those reason are nevertheless with you you'll keep bumping into the individuals of similar kind. if reality be advised that no man or woman is of a kind in our existence that we don't like. it is our own image reflecting again to us one way or the different. i believe that you've an means to locate a chum or a foe in a same man or woman. for sure this through no means is a sturdy idea and there are those who will be extra suitable associates, or worst enemies. even if it is sweet to keep interior the recommendations. It supply me a experience of duty and for this reason a realisation of my own skills.
2016-10-18 21:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you get hurt? Well, hopefully it isn't the thing I am thinking of right now. If you can't figure out who is good to hang out with then don't have any friends anymore. I know it may be painful but if you don't want to get hurt anymore then just stop or try to find the people who are most like you and start hanging around with them.
2007-06-13 11:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucy,
Why are you doing this to your self???
No offense, in all your question you ask the same thing
You need to STOP feeling sorry for your self. I always try to help you. I want to help you. But you don't want to help your self. You have to get off of yahoo and go to a therapist. That's the only way you are going to fix your problems. You always involve your self with these bad people. I told you to get away and ignore them and get help and you never listen. You are going to hurt your self. Please stay alive for a along time and get help! Thank you. I am, here <3 :)
2007-06-15 04:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by scoopie110 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is what did you learn from the last 10 years?
Love and blessings Don
2007-06-13 13:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check yourself objectively, and see what kind of vibe you are giving off, that has a lot to do with whom you attract and let into your life. And, take precautions with people, allow them to earn your trust, don't expose your vulnerability, people have the tendency to take advantage of that. Take care of you!
2007-06-13 13:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Other people don't heal you, YOU heal yourself by letting things go. Look for compassionate people and you wont be disappointed.
2007-06-13 11:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by neuralzen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good student of life. Learn from it. Your experiences are a powerful tool, and you need to learn to use them to your advantage.
2007-06-13 11:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, and go to places where the type of people you would like to be friends with, would go.
sorry i am not much help
but just wanted to say best of luck to you, and well done for getting out, of having friends like that.
2007-06-13 11:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by lovelifelivelife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋