let eachother win or let your partner, friend, family, or someone like that loose?

Question

right?
i mean if you both love eachother why not let eachother be happy.
Do something for your loved one and let them win and then they return the favor and let you win.
isnt that the way love should be. instead of competition.

this subject can relate to anything either a school test, or a game, or just life in general, work and all sorts of stuff.
what do you guys think? should you just let your partner, friend, family member keep loosing or help them out and win?

i know its a random question. thats what i do. im intrested in opnions and stuff. i love getting involved in the human brain. its what i do. the more opnionated you are the better chance of winning. so dig deep in your brain.

Answer 1

If you aren't playing to win, why play at all? Games and competition don't exist to placate the egos of everyone involved. They are a test of our wills, determination, and skill. By the way, love is NOT a competition. If both parties don't feel like they're on equal ground, how can love exist? That sounds more like lust to me.
The only time someone should not try their hardest in a competition is if their skill level is clearly above and beyond what the other is capable. That way, the more skillful person can impart some of their wisdom of the game without making the other person want to quit. Case in point: I never beat my dad at tennis(he played in college), he never beat me at video games, but the competitions were always close.