i met a lot of the wrong people in the last tn years and ended up getting hurt?

Question

how can i meet the wright people to make make me laugh and heal me from this hurt

Answer 1

when you meet new people you should just stand back and listen to them if you feel there are doubts about there way of life trust your instincts and stay away from them

Answer 2

If you look into why you ended up with the wrong people in the past then you should find the reason for that. Until the time those reason are still with you you will keep bumping into the people of similar type. The fact is that no one is of a type in our life that we do not like. It is our own picture reflecting back to us one way or the other. I believe that you have an ability to find a friend or a foe in a same person. Of course this by no means is a solid principle and there are people who would be better friends, or worst enemies. But it is good to keep in the mind. It give me a sense of responsibility and therefore a realisation of my own abilities.

Answer 3

Look up the law of attraction on the net

You will be able to break this cycle by understanding what causes this repeating scenario. This law would say subconcious emotional impulses from you past are forming your future.

If you go out in life fearing meeting the wrong people or person you would in fact be attracting them.

It like when you fear problems and then they suddenly arise. You have summoned them!

Try to break this thought pattern by becoming more aware of your thoughts and importantly: do not be afraid!

There are good people out there, go out with the hope you will meet one, a really good one and then learn to trust.

That might take time but you will get there

Live in Hope, not fear and things will start to turn around

Answer 4

Other people cannot make you heal or save you from being hurt only you can do that. You need to look at why you keep choosing to befriend the people you do. Do they make you feel superior ? or make you feel needed ? Is it just a habit ? is it the comfort of familiarity (abused people often choose abusive partners as that is the role that they are used to and feel comfortable in)

You need to break the cycle. Go to places that you wouldnt normally go to meet people. Join evening classes or a reading group etc.

But first of all you need to build up your own self-esteem.

Answer 5

There may be some great people who have the eyes to "listen" and the "keyboard" of understanding through IM. You may not feel that pressure in talking with others in person, which just may help you laugh and heal.

Answer 6

To answer your burning quest for knowledge and wisdom, you must look within yourself. Was it the people you met? Was it meeting those people? Was it the things you have done for the past ten years? So much to answer...

God has given you instinct. Trust him and trust what he has given to you. You will find the answer to that which you seek. You will not get it from yahoo answers. And it may not be so simple as a yes or no answer.

Good luck my friend.

Answer 7

Dont have expectations that people are capable of doing what you are asking. sure people can guide you, make you laugh, help you heal, but ultimately, its an inside job

Answer 8

i am sad that you are hurting.
humans are humans and are allowed to be selfish...
its part of survival
and we all have losses to bear too...like you

i have learned that i have to rely on myself more
i feel less loss then, and less fear of loss....

find things that amuse me, (not people)

they are not perfect

but the poems i write, the pictures i paint are all "perfect"

maybe not to others

but to me they are....they are my creations....

people will come and go in your life...enjoy them while you can
learn from them
give to them
give them the uniqueness that is "you"

and your world *will* turn.......

;0)

Answer 9

it all depends in where you are meeting these people you need to hang out in nicer places

Answer 10

just try to change your own point of view.