Me and my DH are ttc but i cant tell him when i'm ovulating becuase he gets nervous that he'll mess something up, so i let him know after sex that he tonight was the night, well yesterday i was ovulation didnt tell him and we had sex, well i find out that he had beat off like 5 hours before that, does that mean the sex we had had a really low sperm count? and would it be to low that it probably wont work this month?
2007-06-13 10:37:47 · 6 answers · asked by ilovetyzo 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
The sperm count was probably lower than you would have liked, but at least it was fresh.
2007-06-13 10:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by righteousjohnson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plan a little vacation in the following month around that time and make sure you are both dressed for the occasion. Or try to go to a nice evening out. Oh yea and prayer helps! God bless!
2007-06-13 17:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by taa daa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably gets performance anxiety when you tell him your ovulating. Just don't tell him. And men have LOTS of sperm and regenerate them quite quickly so even if he masterbates, you till have a chance of becoming pregnant. If you're ttc, see if he can't hold off on wanking himself and tell him to use you instead! :o)
2007-06-13 17:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by Kari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
alcohol, relaxes everything and Im sure is responsible for a large portion of the population. Have a few nights wher you both have a bit to drink and get jiggy with it. He will feel more relaxed and in the mood.
2007-06-13 18:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you consider your husband to be a dork, you should pray that you didn't catch.
Get yourself a divorce, and find yourself a fellow you respect.
I realize that creates a problem for some women, because of Groucho Marx's Law - that he wouldn't consider joining any club willing to accept him as a member.
If you think he's a loser, what does that make the woman who's trying to have his baby? Isn't she a loser, too? Poor kid, being born to two losers, won't have a chance.
2007-06-13 17:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
it could im not educated on this, but its a really good question. not to sound grosse, but my husband would always do this before we had sex so he would last longer. (to much info I konw) but he would and I still have 2 babies!!! Good luck
2007-06-13 17:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jen L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋