We've been sexually active for about 2 ½ months now. Usually we have sex for like 30-40 mins... we lose track of time. But lately he ejaculates about 2 mins after we start. What could be affecting this, how could we stop it from happening?
2007-06-13 08:09:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Most of the time sex is really good. I climax first while on top and then he goes on top. Its just lately this has been happening.
2007-06-13 08:28:31 · update #1
Hi, you asked a serious question and so far there have only been smartass answers. My wife and I had been married several years when the same thing started happening to me. My wife and I talked about the problem and together we were able to work it out. For us, it was as simple as slowing down or even stopping (briefly) when it was about to happen. Surprisingly, stopping allowed time to do other things and as a result, our sex life improved dramatically. I hope this helps.
One other thing, make sure to talk to him and let him know that you are happy, but that you would like to make it better for the both of you...
Good luck...
2007-06-13 08:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Bear~~~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-01 00:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lynda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its just because you've only been sexually active for a short period of time. You said that is only recently a problem, right? Not sure what could be causing this.
But here's some things you could try:
You could try using the squeeze technique. Before he ejaculates withdraw his penis and apply firm but light pressure with your index finger on the top his penis head and thumb underneath and hold for 30 seconds or until he loses the wind in his sails, sort of speak. then resume having sex again. This will prolong intercourse.
I've also heard that penis rings might work too to prolong things. Just look online.
Good luck.
2007-06-14 01:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to address it early before it becomes an habbit. Things to look at maybe would include 'are you exciting him overly before you start (oral, hands, visual etc)', 'are there any perceived risks or time pressures that may be making him want to get it done quickly?', or 'have you stopped doing something that slowed him down such as stopping using a condom?' If things don't improve quickly see a therapist.
2007-06-13 08:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by patti_felz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're turning him on more. Maybe you need to do it twice. I'm sure he'll be slower the second time. It doesn't sound like classic premature ejaculation.
2007-06-13 11:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by freeetibet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The better the quality of a womans vagina..wet hot and tight...the faster a man will climax every time..unless he is under the influence of something that will delay his ejaculation and orgasm...it is possible for a man to ejaculate and not have a true extasy..but if he ejaculating very quickly then you have a good quality of vaginal walls and fluids...and its not big and sloppy and dry...now you have to not let him do full insertions and prolong the forplay to help you reach the climax too.
2007-06-13 08:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by benayamin y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find a list of treatments at http://www.cureprematureejaculation.org . Maybe he has a serotonin deficiency. That is one of the major causes of premature ejaculation.
2007-06-13 12:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Hope this helps
2007-06-13 09:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-13 16:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋