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Accidents, depression, death of a mate?

2007-06-13 07:56:01 · 13 answers · asked by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

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I would like people to understand why I'm not feeling well or sad, but not feel sorry for me. My problems are mine, not someone elses.

2007-06-13 08:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

It always makes it worse for me if people are sorry for me. I want them to understand I'm in pain, and try to help me through it, but I don't want their sympathy.

2007-06-13 08:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

no beacuse they really can't feel what I feel inside over a death, however if it is somthing they can actually give advice on then I listen, otherwise a simple... I am sorry will do.

2007-06-13 08:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by caligrl 5 · 2 0

to an extent its nice to know that someone is trying to feel what you feel. from experience though i have noticed that this is rarely enuf to make you feel better (like in the death of a lved one). but having someone at least TRY to understand u (and acknowledge the fact that they can't EXACTLY feel what u feel) is nice..

2007-06-13 08:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by moe 3 · 2 0

there isn't any longer some thing incorrect in feeling sorry for "undesirable human beings". we are all human, and we are all doubtlessly undesirable human beings in a unmarried way or the different. yet we ought to distinguish this compassion from the aims of punishment for "undesirable human beings". i will factor out 2 motives for the want for punishment a million) before each and every thing, is it conceivable to retrieve some or each and every of the losses to different persons which happened end results of the moves of the undesirable "human beings"? 2) Secondly, to discourage the "undesirable human beings" or "different undesirable human beings" from repeating an similar or similar undesirable acts hostile to society. the second one is amazingly major, in the different case we are able to finally end up having a lawless chaotic society. convinced, by all ability "sense sorry for undesirable human beings", yet society also ought to be secure hostile to "undesirable human beings"

2016-11-23 18:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by mcarthur 4 · 0 0

Empathy.

2007-06-13 07:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by purplegroovyrose 2 · 2 0

No. Usually I just want to be left alone.

2007-06-13 07:59:30 · answer #7 · answered by barbwire 7 · 3 0

of course! who wouldnt? i mean, some ppl want to be alone, but deep down, everyone would like someone to care.

2007-06-13 08:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by <3.love.tennis. 4 · 2 0

neither, just one person to talk too. i dont like people to feel sorry for me.

2007-06-13 08:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by THAT1UDONTPLAYWIT 3 · 3 0

I require nothing from others

2007-06-13 07:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

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