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i dont know what to ask the doctor orwhat to to do I am almost 16 and im not really sure how to tell my grandparents

2007-06-13 07:36:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

i just want all of you too know that i dont regret having sex or getting pregnant i believe everything happens for a reason and n that case i believe that this was meant to happen i have a wonderful boyfriend who loves me and wants to be with me... so i have no regrets for even a second..

2007-06-14 05:24:01 · update #1

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My dear... If you feel you are old enough to have sex ( and obviously u think you are) then you should be old enough to take on the responsibilities that go with it. I'm sure you have heard of birth control...right? But anyway, too late now. You MUST tell your grandparents, and you MUST see a doctor. I know it is hard, but this is the only way. Don't think of doing anything crazy.......just face up to your responsibility!!! Good luck..

2007-06-13 07:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by dvatwork 7 · 0 0

How do you know you are 8 weeks then if you haven't seen a doctor yet?? I would be more terrified to tell my parents...not my grandparents unless I didn't have parents. You better say something because either way...it won't be any easier and the stress of keeping that secret is not good for the baby!!!!!! I was 7 weeks when my mom found out...I kept it from her for 3 weeks!!! I had to had mouth surgery and they couldn't do it due to the pregnancy which is how I had to tell her, well Iwalked out of the doctors office quietly and she said "oh God, you're pregnant aren't you!!!" I honestly do not know how she just guessed that!!! Anways she took it hard and she didn't accept my daughter until she saw her come into the world ad now she regrets ever feeling the way she did. She tried to force my bf and I to marry or me have an abortion....I refused either. Thank God because my daughter (besides my hubby) is the best thing to ever happen to me and as for her real father, he is a dead beat as I am sure your baby's father will be too!! Good luck and e-mail me if you just neeed to talk!

2007-06-13 07:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Sweetie, I know this is all overwhelming! You did the deed now you have to grow up real fast; you have a baby on the way!

Morning sickness in its severe form is called hyperemisis gravitum and it can be serious if not treated properly. I had it and lost 24 pounds in 6 weeks, while pregnant. I also had to be checked into the hospital for 7 days for severe dehydration. I don't want this to happen to you! Your situation is scary enough... Please, go to grandparents, talk with them, and ask them to help you find a good ob-gyn! DO THIS IMMEDIATELY! I am fine now and my baby daughter is a beautiful 6 month old now, but I am glad a had a caring and helpful doctor to get me through my first 2 months of hell.

Good luck and I hope this all turns out to be a blessing of sorts in the long run : )

2007-06-13 07:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mum's the Word : + 4 · 0 0

Sweetie, I was in your shoes not too long ago, I wasnt sick, but all of the sudden I was gaining alot of weight. I went to the doctor and found out I was 4 1/2 months pregnant! So go get a pregnancy test/go to the doctor. and if you are pregnant you are going to have to make a desision, either have the baby or have an abortion which I dont agree with but you need to do whats best for you. Good luck, Try not to be scared it will all work out.

2007-06-13 07:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Start taking your prenantal vitamins. You can get them at the grocery store. You have to tell your Grandparents. From there make an appointment with an OB/GYN (yout grandma can help you with that) ask any questions that concern you and do what your doctor says. Good luck with everything. As for the morning sickness...you just have to tough it out like the rest of us.

2007-06-13 07:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you are sure you're pregnant, eat a few saltines before getting out of bed in the morning, they usually help with the morning sickness. TELL your Grandparents ASAP so you can get to the doctor. You can put yourself and your baby in danger by not seeing a doctor, especially if you are already having complications and you're stressing yourself out. I wish you the Best!

2007-06-13 07:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mom2four 3 · 0 0

I had morning ailment all day long too. i think for you i know how depressing i grew to become into. I have been given defferent teas no longer ginger. I have been given a vanilla Chai tea that help soooo lots for me. i attempted to drink water because of fact i grew to become into having an extremely no longer basic time keeping something down in any respect. Do what you may regardless of the undeniable fact that to attempt and consume once you may. that's what i attempted to do whether I knew i might throw up. I keep in mind basically eating tea's all day reason i could no longer abdomen any food!! do no longer issue regardless of the undeniable fact that it does get greater efficient I promise!! yet another little hint to attempt which worked each each now and then too is those little peppermint goodies, that helped each now and then. good success to you!!

2016-10-09 03:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

The doctor will explain pretty much everything considering your age. You need to go, to get vitamins for you and the baby. As for your grandparents, not sure, I have never been in this situation. Just try to make them understand

2007-06-13 07:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by Kim B 2 · 2 0

I think you should go to the doctor as soon as possible. tell your grandparents. if there good grandparents they will fuss at you a little, but they wont kill you. its just gonna make more stress on urself and the baby and its defanately not gonna help you sleep, or get rid of ur morning sickness knowing that they dont know about it.

2007-06-13 07:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by k 2 · 0 0

Oh honey, go sit down with them and just get it out in the open. There is nothing else you can do at this point. I hope they are the understand kind of people that will listen and not try to kill you for your actions. Your not the only person in the world this has ever happened to, and you certainly won't be the last. I hope for the best for you.

2007-06-13 07:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

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