so he is begging me to go to a party with him on saturday but i cant because my mom is pregnant and she wants me to hang out with her on saturday....so he is saying things like "You wont trust me if i go"..and "ill be wicked drunk and i know youll be sitting at home not trusting me"....what the f*** duz that mean? should i be worried he is going to cheat on me???? Is he saying all that as some sort of sign that he wants to cheat on me if i dont go?
2007-06-13 07:24:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im not much of a partier because i have to take care of my family most of the time, and hes also saying **** like "You wont like me this summer because im a party animal and i party all the time".......so what duz that mean?
2007-06-13 07:33:08 · update #1
holy crap break up with him! he is hinting he wants to cheat and is hoping you will go so he wont be tempted but also dosent care if you dont go becuase then he can do what he wants...he sounds like a complete jerk, leave him
**** if he really cared for you he'd hang out with you and your mom instead of going to a party****
2007-06-13 07:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by lovely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, he** no. I dont think it is a trust issue, hon, it sounds like he wants to control you. First, ask yourself if you trust him to go alone. WITHOUT his mouthing off about him getting " wicked drunk".
If he doesnt understand that you need and seem to want to hang out and help your family, this dude is so seriously not worth your time.
I have never been a partier. There is nothing wrong with that. I am 22, never smoked or done any kind of drug, only drank once or twice a month, when i was in the army, as of right now, I havent drank any kind of alcoholic drink in over 8 months. I dont think I have ever been REALLY drunk, where i did something stupid.
I am very proud of all this, so if he wants you to be a party animal, and thats not you...find a better boyfriend who would rather take you to a movie, or even hang out around the family... there is nothing wrong with what you do, and dont let some stupid boy tell you so......
2007-06-17 07:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's great you're staying at home to be w/ your pregnant mom :-)
This guy sounds like a flake... or maybe you're untrusting... but there has to be some reason you don't trust him to begin with and if not he sounds like he has reasons for you to not trust him (hence the party comments). Guys are wierd--- they may say something after he's cheated on you like "You just never trust me, YOU pushed me away and I got super drunk and made out w/ this chick bcuz I was tired of it" but that just means he's putting blame on you for his wrong actions and if he didn't want to be w/ you anymore in the first place he should have manned up and told you. I'm outta high school now and over the yrs I've grown so tired of drama that I spot if b4 it starts to create a problem and DROP IT. Plus I know there's someone better out there somewhere
2007-06-13 07:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have ANY doubts about your boyfriend you NEED to end the relationship. I think you should be there to hang out with your mom and your bf shouldn't care but RESPECT you. Break up with this sad excuse of a man. He's not worth your time. There are so many GREAT guys out there but you wont be able to meet them if you are wound up in this ABUSIVE relationship. No offense to you but I bet you are way to good for this guy and you need to move on and get a guy you can trust to go to a party and know for a matter a fact he wont do anything. Enjoy this summer with a guy who is a MAN!! =)
2007-06-13 11:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be 100% Honest with you. When you're not at a club with him, he can go with any girl he wants. At clubs mainly people dance, play pool, and drink. If you boyfriend is the wild type, I can GUARANTEE you that the next time you see him the next morning, he would have slept with a stranger. I would tell him to take you or don't go at all! If he refuses, he's not the right guy for you.
2016-05-19 02:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by tena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, you need to find someone better. This has happened to someone I know. He was all like telling her that "Im going to a party tonight so i should bring a condom just in case" and she was all like wtf!? It turns out he was cheater. So what I say is that you deserve waaay better than what he can offer. So i say leave him, be strong and believe in yourself and be like "hey! I'm worth it!" I hope you make the right decision and I wish you all the best!!!
*hugs*
God bless you hun!!!
2007-06-13 10:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by Questions ^_^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, if he`s saying things like that, then theres a chance that its a sign not to trust him..he`s basically saying..look..if you dont go with me..imma get drunk and cheat on you..i think you should just ditch that loser boyfriend of yours..
2007-06-13 07:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by ana g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he's asking you to break up with him. Just talk to him and tell him how he should care about you enough to know his limit and not cheat becuase he cares about you. I think its cool that you aren't a party animal and want to spend time with your mom, he should respect that.
2007-06-13 10:21:26 · answer #8 · answered by sunkissedlove<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I agree with DALICE he really wants you to go that's why he is saying that. It's blackmail, if he really loved you he would of said he's not going or he'll be ok with you staying there..not saying stuff like that.
2007-06-13 07:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to see what you will do. If you will go and sneak after him. Dont do it just say "go right ahead. It doesnt bother me." And if he does cheat dump his @s*
2007-06-13 07:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by SaveEggsCrackSmiles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋