I am a Jewish Rabbi with one wife and three mistresses. What do I do? (by the way, I have two kids with one of my mistresses and four kids with my wife)
2007-06-13 06:59:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You ask "What do I do?"...I think you've already done it. You need to stop.
And I'm offended that you called this a "Jewish" problem. It has nothing to do with being Jewish. You would be consideredselfish,self centered, thoughtless idiot in any denomination.
2007-06-13 07:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by gross d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your wife does not already know about the mistresses, I'd suggest telling her, the mistresses, and all of the kids. Also, allow your wife to have a couple men on the side, since that is what your doing. Get her feelings on it, and get some marriage counseling, something extremely personal like this should be reviewed by a professional who can give you reliable advice.
2007-06-13 14:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, you need to break up with your mistresses. Tell them that you are involved and don't want to ruin your marriage with your wife. Then you need to tell the truth to your wife. Tell her that the one kid isn't hers and about the affairs with the other women. After that suggest going to see a relationship specialist to get some help and to try and save your marriage. You will have to face the one mistress to see who gets custody of the one child though. It sounds to me like you are in a big mess and will have a lot to work out. Best of luck!
Sholom!
2007-06-13 14:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by staroftheuniverses21 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a wife and three mistresses? Oy Vey, Are you overdosing on viagra or what? I'd suggest that you set up a trust fund for the children you have with your mistress , then return to your wife and spend your life being faithful to her. Adultery is one of the sins listed on the ten Commandments, have you considered what you are going to say to the Lord God if you die tomorrow?
2007-06-13 15:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No f'in way I'm going to your temple.... how could you do that to your wife? Everyone looks up to you as a Rabbi, how can you walk up and talk to people, have everyone's respect when you are married with 3 women on the side? And with kids? How horrible a person you are...
2007-06-13 14:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to another section
2007-06-13 14:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by kanei 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
taking a question like this to a different section may be a start
2007-06-13 14:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by PRIDE! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get rid of the mistresses.I'm sure your wife isn't too happy about them.
2007-06-13 14:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by RainbowParrotFish 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Become a Mormon?
2007-06-13 14:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get some help!!
2007-06-17 02:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by ziggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋