and style? and attitude?
2007-06-13 06:18:08 · 23 answers · asked by amber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you can not be yourself wear what you like and do life the way you see is best then it does not matter how popular you for they can not be your friend if they are not liking you for who you are
2007-06-13 06:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Popularity is in the eye of the beholder. What is cool to one may be nerdy to the next. The popular group at my high school was to weird, cliquey, and cookie-cutter for me. In fact, I became friends with one of the "popular" girls from high school in college and was suprised to find out she thought I was part of the cool kids. Anyway, I think it's confidence that makes someone popular. A positive attitude. Someone who does well in school and tries new things. Someone who is involved and friendly. Style? Make it your own. Dress how you want. What ever makes you feel good. Good luck.
2007-06-13 13:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by robinslooking 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not many because your friends might have friends and you are considered an associate of others. that way your name is know all over and you are sort of popular. but just being extremely confident in yourself and not following the crowd make you popular because that means you can stand up for yourself and then ohers will hang with you so they can be like you. try it and good luck. if that don't work ignore the popular kids and realize they lack confidence too that's why they need people around them all the time.
2007-06-13 13:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by ezekiel's mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My grandmother used to tell me one good friend is better than a dozen bad ones. Being popular is not all its cracked up to be. You have to maintain a certain lifestyle all the time. Just make sure you're popular for a good think like being nice or smart and not for having a bad reputation.
2007-06-13 13:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmygurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever you feel like, everyone says be yourself but in some situations you have to be not-so-yourself, the best thing is to be cool with everyone, good popular people are the type that can make everyone laugh and smile if their feeling bad or just need to, just keep up with the modern news/style so that you'll know what ppl are talking about ...... much luck
2007-06-13 13:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Hmm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are popular by what your friends think of you. It doesn't matter how popular you are it is how many good friends you have.
2007-06-13 13:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so it sounds like you're probaly in highschool/middle school and let me tell you something....no matter how popular you are in school...or how unpopular you are...does not matter AT ALL once you get to college or get a job...really, popularity is not something you should aim for...just be a good person and treat everyone the same. thats what is really important.
2007-06-13 13:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to be popular well if you are trying to be popular your already never going to be. popular means your well liked by alot of people for your nice personality plus most of the populars are turning into dueshbags when they get older that are homeless my sister saw the most popualr girl from her college on the streets yesterday do you really want to be popular.
2007-06-13 13:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by Babycakes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-13 13:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
y do u need to be popular? i think you should just be yourself and be kind to every1. and no matter how many friends u have if u are not suppose to be popular then u wont.
2007-06-13 13:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by babyblue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋