for you?
2007-06-13 04:45:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes! I made the effort pretending he wasn't there (we work at the same school). Still pulls my heartstrings, though.
Crazy thing love is.
2007-06-13 05:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Honeychurch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.....Yes. I had a brother who was a pathological liar and a drug addict. There was no more possibility of good in that relationship, so I made a conscious effort to avoid contact with him - until he was gunned down in Miami in front of convenience store.
It's a hard thing. We don't choose our family, all we can do is love them. But some people are so hopelessly lost that only disappointment, loss and pain are possible...and you have to decide whether to let them go...
2007-06-13 04:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you're not in my head ?
I was with a guy for 5 1/2 yrs. lived with him. treated me like dirt for 4 of the yrs. left him, went back 3 times. I finally left for good. now, after a yr. apart, I'm trying not to submit to him again. I know he will be the same again after about 2 mos. or less.
I wish there was a pill I could take to erase him from my memory. MAYBE SHOCK TREATMENTS, huh???
I'm much older than you, so I should know better.
2007-06-13 05:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by chercinbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
You can love someone but not be able to live with them. You can love someone but know that they are complete poison for you! Protect yourself! That is not a bad thing to do. If you need to interact than do so on a limited basis but otherwise, keep the door closed.
2007-06-13 04:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by Goddess of Laundry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my father. He was a paranoid schizophrenic, sometimes violent, and often irrational. I assumed I loved him because he was my father, and I suppose I did, since I was able to remember good things about him in spite of the pain.
2007-06-13 04:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by auntb93 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sometimes its for the best. No matet rhow much you love them. if they aren't benefiting what your're trying to accomplish. Then the most upstanding thing you can do is leave, notreally foir them, but for the preservation of self.
2007-06-13 04:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I no longer have a relationship with my father or one of my sisters. They are both mentally ill and refuse to do anything about it. They would rather bring everyone else down to be miserable with them.
2007-06-13 08:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by EllD75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and after I left that person I met my husband and he is the best!!!! Sometimes someone who is bad for you is really attractive to you. I guess I was kind of a masochist for a while.but I learned my lesson.
2007-06-13 04:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup
Divorced my first husband and stay away from him now.
2007-06-13 10:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by Threeicys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋