Right now Im in a hole guys. I cant get out and im down as far as I can go. I have warrants out for my arrest because of unpaied tickets. I cant get a job because I dont have an Phot ID to cash checks . I dont have an ID because If I try to get my drivers liscense they will arest me at the DPS office. Bascially before I was 16 I had lots of tickets already because I was driving and I didnt pay them so now they are really expensive :(. My life is going nowhere I cant turn to anything. Where do I go from here?
2007-06-13 04:31:25 · 11 answers · asked by Cliff 2 in Computers & Internet ➔ Hardware ➔ Other - Hardware
How about starting by going to a church and asking for the priest or Rev. Ask for guidance. A church usually means family. How would like to have a family right now? One that is supportive. One that loves to reach out and care.
If you are truly ready for a change - reach out.
2007-06-13 04:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Shoshee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And "Cliff" you might want to post your question somewhere other than Computer Hardware....you most likely will get good answers right here, but re-posting to the right category may illicit more responses.
Sometimes, we just have to face our demons, our past, make amends as best we can (doing whatever it takes to pay those tickets...etc..)..you are hiding behind your fear of what will happen if you face the problems head-on. It may not be pleasant, it may be hard as hell...but you will come out of it a better person..IF you choose to face the facts straight on. Stop looking for an easy way out. Yeah..it'll be tough...but you'll be surprised at the "man" you become on the other side of it.
2007-06-13 04:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Toots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well start off my stop complaining. You should have paid those tickets. Now you're in this horrible predicament. Now it's a great time to fess up be a man, and turn yourself in. It would be easier if you turn yourself in rather than them finding you. What if you're trying to work and they find you, do you really want your employer to see you get arrested? Not really. Just fess up, they don't like cowards. The more you run the angrier they'll get. You'll be able to get through it. Just follow your instinct. If you think you can run forever...then run... but that's not the life you want to live. Think about it. Rationally! And good luck!!
2007-06-13 04:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by :::: S.H.E :::: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be arrested but as far as spending any time behind bars I say very doubtful. I dont know what your tickets are for but we have far to many people in jail right now so sending you in there for unpaid tickets not likely. Turn yourself in get this takin care of so you can start fixing your record for employers in the future. I know it's hard walking down there and doing it but it has to be done.
2007-06-13 04:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by HookemHorns21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, start by standing up to your mistakes and go to the police station to turn yourself in. Offer the judge some sort of work program after perhaps doing a little time for your mistakes and pay back the fines. If you turn yourself in, you might get a lighter penalty.
2007-06-13 04:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see your emotion in your pic. Kind of like mine... There is nothing you can do and the more you hide the worse it will be when you get caught. Fess up now and you can straighten your life out before you are 21. You are still young dont wait till your 18.
2007-06-13 04:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you have to own up to the responsibility of the tickets 1st and foremost. nothing is gonna change til that is taklen care of... so you get arrested, it aint gonna be pretty, but you will feel relieved once you get it over with. with that load off your shoulders you will feel better and more energized about moving forward. good luck in this and the rest of your future!
2007-06-13 04:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by just me #1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think you should turn yourself in. That way, you go to jail for a little bit and then come out and can start over fresh.
2007-06-13 04:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by Yoi_55 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always stand by the fact that we only live once and should do whatever makes us happy .. and if keeping the police from arresting you (by any means necessary) will make you happy then buddy you better jump on it.
2007-06-13 04:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by Troy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE I SUGGEST GOING TO CHURCH AND GETTING JESUS. HE CAN HELP YOU OVER COME ANYTHING. THE DEVIL HAS GOTTEN YOU SO LOW IN LIFE YOU FEEL DEFEATED AND THATS WHEN JESUS CAN HELP YOU BREAK THROUGH. DON'T THINK IT SOUNDS LAME BECAUSE YOU CAN SPEND AND ETERNITY IN HEAVEN RATHER THAN HELL. GOOD LUCK AND I WILL PRAY FOR YOU
2007-06-13 04:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by KaTiE 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋