im going to high school next year but i don't know if im going to get a girlfried?

Answer 1

Well, they don't issue you one when you get your locker combination. Besides getting a girlfriend should be the farthest thing from your mind. Especially in your first year of high school. Don't blow your grades over some girl. If you have good grades you'll get into a good college. What will you get if you have a girlfriend besides nothing?

Answer 2

Relationships just complicate things in your first years of high school.At least for me,freshman was a very stressful year with grades and problems, but it might be different for you.
If you think you can handle it,girls won't be a problem.Don't expect to go out with anyone older than you until you're at least a sophomore.Just have a good time man.

Answer 3

Girlfriends are not like textbooks, they don't just hand them out. Girlfriends are not things you get, they are friends you make who sometimes turn out to be special enough to form a relationship with. Whether you meet a girl in school who turns out to be your "girlfriend" or not should not be part of your planning for your high school education. What activities and courses you will be taking/participating in should be your priorities.

Answer 4

What you are asking is a very normal question because as human beings we are a race that needs affection in order to function in what we consider to be a normal state, but on the same side of that coin we need to understand that there are going to be times when our focus needs to be more on what we are doing, or looking to endeavor upon, than on who we're going to be with. I'm a devout Christian so I will answer this question in a like manner. The main focus of your going to high school needs to be more on your studies and grade levels than on finding a girlfriend. Now I know that it's great to have a girlfriend, but she'll come along in time. I mean, it's not like there is some shopping flyer that circulates where you can order a girlfriend to accompany you through your high school years. Sometimes one is better off just being patient and waiting for the right one to come along. Too often we choose our mates by sight, take them for a test drive in the bedroom, and when we establish within ourselves that the drive was a success we want more. A period of time passes and the novelty begins to wear off and we find ourselves looking for a trade in, or trade up if you will. We have come as a race of people so far away from what is moral in this country that marriage and other relationships are established out of lust and not true love, and with the first sign of trouble comes the thought of divorce instead of a combined effort on both parts to find a solution. Now you can go and find yourself a girlfriend who is beautiful , intelligent, and sexy, but the true question is will she love you. And I don't mean in the sense of a familiarity because you're a nice guy and you can rock her stockings off; I'm talking about her loving you for the person that you are, and is willing to accept your shortcomings as much as your compatibilities. You see, we have removed ourselves in this life so far away from God that most no longer hear Him anymore. Oh, they say that they believe, but their actions paint another picture. Marriage was never intended to be the consummation of sex, but the contrary instead. I know you said that you didn't know whether you would have a girlfriend next school year or not, and I went off on this scenic route, but I assure you that if you believe in God and truly ask Him with all your heart, He will bring the two of you together, whoever she may be. Don't rush what should be approached with patience, for that could only lead to disaster. You take care my brother and know that I will be praying for you and asking God to give you the guidance you need to find the mate you are searching for. God bless you; Your Brother In Christ.

Answer 5

Mike~

High school comes with books, smelly locker rooms, disinterested teachers & bad food but you are on your own to get a girlfriend. There will be a large supply from which to choose. Pick yourself out a nice one. Be good to her & make sure she's nice to you. That ought to cover it.

Answer 6

Don't stress out over it. Relax, be yourself, be friendly and make friends. That's the best place to start, because the best relationships are formed from good friendships. Besides, if you are frantically looking for a girlfriend, you may make yourself look pathetic, and you don't want that.

Answer 7

Don't be worrying about that right now...you've got the rest of your life to worry about that.
Thats all I worried about when I was in high school; was getting a boyfriend...and ended up having to worry about getting my education when I was older, which is alot harder to do...and I'm still wondering about the boyfriend.

Answer 8

That's not exactly what schools were designed for. Education is the first priority. Extracurricular activities are also important, but that doesn't necessarily mean the dating scene.

Answer 9

dude, i'm going to tell you right now, speaking from experience. I'm a 27 year old man now, and I would do anything to go back in time and do high school right. I spent all my time worrying about chicks, and missed my life. don't get me wrong, girls are a good thing, but dont let them rule your life, have fun, and if you enjoy a girl, have fun with her. don't commit yet

Answer 10

high school is about school, not about girlfriends =p

I know that's not some way that you think, but it would really relieve you of a lot of stress and help you get farther in education and income in the future.

Besides, no one knows the future, so take care of todays stuff, and let tomorrow worry about itself.