The problem is that she has no class. The last time we went out to eat she brought her own 40oz of malt liquor into the resteraunt. She got drunk and got into a fight. I tried to help but like always i was the first one to go down. This happens all the time. What should i do about this. Tired of getting in fights because of her.
2007-06-13 03:10:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
If you think she has no class, maybe you need to rethink whether or not you really want to be with her. Also, you seem to have a problem with her weight - I'm not sure how relevant her weight is to your question so it seems strange that you would put it in there. Also, I see no reason why you need to involve yourself in her fights. If someone I was with got into a fight, I'd get up, pay my share of the bill, go home and leave them to it! No need to stoop to that level!
Though, if after all that, you're sure you want to be with her, skip the restaurant, she obviously doesn't know how to behave in public. Cook for her at home instead, and maybe after a nice meal you could tell her how you feel about the way she behaves. Best of luck.
2007-06-13 03:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Neon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Carlos, I was her size just last year. So I know exactly how short, but big she is. Fortunately, I've lost 35 lbs and have more class than that. If she does not think enough of you to consider how her behaviour is affecting your relationship and/or how you may end up getting injured because of her antics (since you are of slim build), then she doesn't deserve to have you. You really need to talk to her and make the rules of the evening clear. She must agree to the rules, if she breaks the rules, there must be a consequece. I can't determine what that consequence is, maybe you immediately leave and give her cab fare home? Just a suggestion. Actions have to have consequences. If you keep letting her get away with this behaviour, things will only get worse.
2007-06-13 03:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you ought to attempt speaking to her appropriate to the way she acts and if she isn't prepared to make some ameliorations to advance herself for the extra valuable, you ought to take a little time aside from her and be sure it somewhat is extremely this variety of dating you prefer to be in. even regardless of the undeniable fact that maximum women people could say her guy ought to stand up for her, on your case, i could disagree using fact she is inquiring for worry whilst she brings liquor together with her to a cafe. I woudn't be leaping into any fights using fact of her movements.
2016-10-17 03:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem here is not her weight, the problem here is that you are dating an alcoholic in disguise. if this happens all the time and still you want to take her out then, i really think that you are the one with the problem.
2007-06-13 06:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by rain duster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - that is one BIG girl.
Be careful, the next time she gets drunk you could wind up as dinner.
:)
2007-06-13 03:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well carlos, leave the nice feminine lady and go and get yourself a bit of rough! lol
2007-06-13 03:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by jillz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you , I'd stick to places like KFC and such, you don't need manners there.
2007-06-13 04:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by tyvek1313 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋