How do you know if you have weird or unhealthy sexual fantasies, likes, tastes or desires? I mean I have always thought as long as you aren't hurting yourself or others it's ok. I like play rape. Is something wrong with me? I have been raped and it was indeed horrible! Why would I like it now in a safe environment with a loving partner? Just not sure why it turns me on . . .
2007-06-13 02:34:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Normal is what feels normal to you.
Most women's fantasies involve having sex with another man, another woman or rape. This in no way means you are abnormal, that is why they are called fantasies.
If you were to ask women what they secretly fancy you'd realize there is not really a marker that tells what falls into normal or weird.
What is normal, tho, is embracing your sexuality and enjoying sex in a mature, safe way. What goes on in your head is only your business.
2007-06-13 02:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Playing a pretend power struggle game with someone you know and trust is waaaay different than being raped... Sometimes, for me, it feels kind of sexy to be "submitting control" to someone I trust and care about...
2007-06-13 08:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by aspicco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its okay, that sometimes turns me on too, sometimes...just make sure that u don't end up w/ a partner who is abusive.
2007-06-13 06:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋