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.......lied to your current boyfriend/girlfriend about how you got it because they'd be upset if they knew you were wearing something that came from a previous relationship?

I have this gorgeous necklace that my last boyfriend brought me from Costa Rica, and I can't part with it. I told my current boyfriend that my kids got it for me for Mother's Day one year, because he'd be all pissy if he knew the truth.

2007-06-13 02:31:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

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The past is part of who you are today - no regrets - no reason to cover it up. If he loves you for who you are then that is part of it.
Everything we touch, touches us back, and we, as are they, the compilation of all those experiences, thoughts, and dreams. I wrote this yesterday to someone Else's question but it bears repeating: What we resist, persists. What we accept and embrace, we gain power over it.
Embrace your past - it helped make you who you are today.

2007-06-13 03:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by X 4 · 0 0

Your kids might slip and say something about it some day. I don't really have anything that an ex gave me. I threw it all out or gave it away because I don't want my current boyfriend to be uncomfortable (plus, my ex's never gave me anything exceptional). And actually, my favorite shirt of his came from his ex. But it doesn't bother me, I still like when he wears it because he looks cute in it.

2007-06-13 02:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Stark 6 · 0 1

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2014-09-24 08:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No....... he always knew. Gosh..... my old boyfriend even gave me my puppy. When my new boyfriend asked how long I had had him, I told the truth. If you have to cover up the little obvious things....... what happens to the big things? I always told the truth. My favorite necklace is my favorite because it is the perfect size and I love it. NOT because he gave it to me. If they understand this..... then they are secure and trust is not an issue. If they get upset over something like jewelry or a puppy dog...... there are deeper issues to be concerned about.

2007-06-13 02:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 · 0 2

Haha. Nothing wrong with a lie that hurts no one... ;-)

Most of my jewelry comes from old bf's or my mom, but the stuff the bf's got is for the most part, ugly, or I feel as though it carries bad karma or or something so I avoid that stuff...pawn shop maybe? lol.

2007-06-13 02:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

NO. I told the truth If he can't handle because he can't give me something better than the other one gave me. too bad. If he is insecure tough crap. I have gold rings from before and I still wear them.

2007-06-13 02:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by sandrota 6 · 0 1

He knows I dated a lot before I met him. He's cool.

2007-06-13 02:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0 1

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2017-03-02 01:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

no i dnt lie abt it.. my babe knows that i stil wear jewelries fr my ex's... well i keep it 4 its sentimental value & he respects that but i dnt wear it when we're 2gether..

2007-06-13 02:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0 1

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