I want to get married?

Question

I meet men all the time and can get almost any man i want, but...
how do i make them see me as a woman they would marry???

Usually they think they are not good enough for me, that im out of their league etc, but i dont feel like that - just because i have the looks, good manners and im educated doesnt mean that. So all my relationships end with me getting hurt but somehow men dont feel that way.

I have dated all kinds of men - different races, ages, poor, rich, educated, from good and bad families, handsome and not so handsome - you name it...
and it even doesnt matter how i dress or act - i can be dressed like a nun and act like one too.

Answer 1

Well, you can't make anyone want to marry you. The attraction must be mutual "Law of Attraction."

I'm going to be direct with this but don't get offended as I'm only saying this to help. Maybe your carrying baggage from your past and your putting in your future all the time and this is causing you to treat people the same as past experiences with other people. See, we teach people how to interact with us on an unconscious level and they do the same to us.

This is a made up example of what can happen over time.

Say I was abused as a child and this caused me to act a certain way, scared, shy, strange, distant or anything not normal. These feelings are with me all the time. So I grow up a bit and start dating girls. This girl Sally really likes me and I really like her and were dating for a long time and we sleep together then things get bad and we break up. We both make up a story about the other person and make the other person wrong. This story gets put into my bag of past issues that I've been accumulating my whole life.
Then I met a guy who I become friends with and later he starts treating me like I'm his mom regarding money. He always asks me for money and I usually give it to him because I'm a nice guy but this gets old really fast so I decide he's a loser and I make him wrong. So this story goes into my bag of past stories. So every past story is now in my bag of past issues and every-time a situation comes up that's similar to a past issue, unconsciously we react in the same way we operates from that past issue. So this could be area you might want to look at. These areas that we don't see in ourselves are called blind spots, according to Landmark Education. These blind spots are revealed to you in the courses.

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Namaste

Answer 2

Only by being yourself (dont play any games) will a guy figure out that you are the type of gal he would like to spend the rest of his life with. You are young, good looking (based on photo), well mannered and educated (based on your info). You probably one day hope to form a family. All these attributes are very good. However, obviously for them there was something missing. Bottom line is that these men you have dated havent found you compatible with them or compatible enough to spend the rest of their life with you. Finding your soul mate could take days, months, years, or a lifetime. Seems like these men used the "your too good for me" excuse to end the relationship. Why would anyone in the world say that after you have accepted to date them?

Here are some tips:

1) Date Euro men (similar cultures), preferrably from your home country. Other men as second resort;
2) If you date men in financial services, keep in mind these are grueling jobs in NYC. Dont expect a whole lot of time from these types;
3) Dont waste your time on second dates if that peson is not into you and gives you his ears on the first;
4) Date men that have similar interests as you (e.i if your educated, an uneducated man will probably not have very much in common with you)
5) Friends are the best way to meet others. If going to a club/bar, the #1 reason for going is to have fun, not meet the man of your dreams. If you do, then great, however, dont expect too.

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Answer 3

heh. You have it easy!! I want to get married too but I can't even find a woman near my age with those interests. They all seem to only want to get laid and then move on and I'm not into sex outside of a loving relationship. It's hard to find an attractive, loyal, fun, smart woman.

As for your situation, and mine, all you can do is continue to look for that person. Someday you will find the right one. Don't rush into sex for starters. Try to ask questions early about the intentions of the man and his long term goals and see if they include marraige. If that doesn't work just email me :P j/k

Good luck.

Answer 4

It all depends how much you keep your options open for the type of man you really want to married. if you have your standers up too high. you will stay in the same old circle wondering why. Relax do try not to be so much of a brain child.

Answer 5

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Answer 8

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Answer 9

Me too. It came over me all of a sudden. Never have I ever wanted a wedding..
Now I do! :) <3

Answer 10

Be patience there are some good decent men out there. When that special person enters your life he will step to the plate and present you with a ring.