I am an 18 year old guy and personally I dont believe in love at all, I dont think everybody feels love, I sure dont. Also people keep asking me how rejection feels, I dont know quit asking never fell in love, I never will and never want to so quit asking.
I dont want to fall in love and just dont have thoughs feelings at all and never will. I have been on my own since I was little and only love myself. I am telling you that I never had thoughs feelings and never will and am wondering how other people feel about love, cuz I have asked this question before and people give dumb answers like you just have to wait you will feel it one day and never say never thats the dumbest one, no I already know I dont, What I am asking is how other people feel about love.
Also I am not lonely I am fine by myself I have been on my own since I was a little boy never needed anyone in my 18 years and never will.
Gave you my opinion on love what is your opinion on love
2007-06-12 20:42:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O loves not meant for me just need to find out how some other people feel about it
2007-06-12 20:50:01 · update #1
O dont have parents and I dont have friends anymore and never had a girlfriends its alright its not bout me its about u and ur opinion on love not on me please no more about me
2007-06-12 20:51:43 · update #2
Well, lets see....
I know for a fact that life wouldn't be worth living if I didn't have someone to love or to be loved. Every day I feel the warmth and joy as my husband tells me how much he loves me. I feel the same when I look into my children's eyes. I can see their smile and it brightens my whole day. I believe love is grand and should be cherished forever and not taken for granted. I do believe in the saying " Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. " I believe there is no other feeling like when you love someone and someone loves you right back. I desire to protect and care for my family because I love them. My children feel safe with me, because they know I love them. I would give my own life for them if need be. That is true love to me.
I am sorry that you feel the way you do. But as everyone, you have every right to feel the way you do. And I hate that you've had it so tough. Good luck in your life's journey.
2007-06-12 21:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that love is a yes or no question. I think that it is a scale. For example -100 to 100, 100 being that your really really like the person and -100 is that you really really hate them. Surely there are people you really like to hang around? Well if there is a girl that you really really like, and you also have the essential sexual desire for her, then that is what our society calls romantic love. Other love may be for your child for example, which would be near 100 but without the sexual part. There are quite a few people who are just like you and have no feeling of longing for others and can not understand how love in the focal point of most other people lives.
In my opinion many of these people would have physiological reasons for this such as their mother not loving them etc...
However you are just 18 and you may change, you must accept that you may and statements like "never will" is purely immature as you have no idea what will happen. This statement is as silly as a hormone-filled 16-year old boy saying to his gf that he will be with her forever. Maybe you will never change, but you just do not know. Good Luck! And for your sake I hope you do.
EDIT:: "dont have parents and I dont have friends anymore and never had a girlfriends" No wonder you don't know love, there is nobody for you to love...
2007-06-13 03:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The usefulness of a cup is in its emptiness. You can't appreciate the answer because you're "filled" with your own impression of love, so answering your question would be pointless. In your defense however, it's not uncommon to be unaffected by love yet at 18. In some ways the longer you wait to realize that the more likely it is to be true if and when you finally do experience it. I wish you every success in your life's journey.
2007-06-13 03:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day you will feel what love is.. it will just happen.
There are different types of love...
for friends, family, partner, children.
Its a feeling of attachment, deep affection, fondness of someone. It can make you feel a complete desire to be around this person, and a feeling that this person completes you (makes you extra happy).
Surely you have experienced this feeling towards relatives and friends at least? If not you will feel it one day :)
2007-06-13 03:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! U sound cynical... ;) lol.
I guess its totally ok not to be in love... I mean, u cant force it on ur self. Jus chill n enjoy the stuff in ur life rite now. ur still small, u ve got yrs and yrs to live... ;) lol
Hav fun while u can! Definitely DONT go looking for love...!!!! It ll find u...if its meant to... ;)
2007-06-13 03:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a reader of your short story about yourself my analization is that you have the "fear".so you have to fight for that fear,by trying your self to indulge in a relationship,love is beautiful and you must try that and give it to the deserving one,which is visa versa.
2007-06-13 04:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by maled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're lucky in a way...
2007-06-13 03:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋